preface:
Some people say that perhaps the only bouquet of flowers that boys can receive in this life is at their own funeral.
Friends around me often joke with me:
Never be a man again in the next life, being a man is too tired.......
If a man is likened to a tenacious grass root, the woman is the delicate flower.
"Women are weak", girls need more care and care from us, no matter how feminine a woman is, there will be a little girl's side in her heart.
We often hear a word from girlfriends – "security".
In a relationship, girls are prone to gain and loss, so they need to get a sense of security from their boyfriends from time to time to reassure themselves.
For girls, this kind of security is a reassuring pill!
Boys can give girls a sense of ceremony, but a sense of security is a real necessity.
To put it bluntly, as long as a girl can find the security she wants from you, then she will not abandon you, so, boys, do you understand?
We all learned a lesson in the middle school physics class: the action of forces is mutual.
In fact, everything must follow this truth, girls need to feel safe, and the same way, boys also need it!
Many girls have ignored this important knowledge point, and then I will make up lessons for the girls, and the small books will be memorized for me!
In fact, the sense of security that boys want is very simple:
First of all, the most important point is not to secretly engage in ambiguity with other boys behind his back, which is a big taboo!
The second is to discuss with him no matter what you encounter, and never hide it from him! (Except for creating romantic surprises)
Messages can be replied to later, but don't fail to respond; let him know where you've gone and what you're doing.
The more you care about your guy, the more security you need, it's that simple.
epilogue:
Many girls will ask the question: "How can you catch a man's heart?" ”
In fact, the answer to this question is very simple, that is, to give him a stability that he will not abandon, so that he has the motivation to fight for you and this small family.
Both men and women, we are eager to find a deep solace in this world of thin affection.
We're all talking about finding our own right edge? What kind of person will be our right thing to do?
My understanding is that meeting a person who makes you comfortable with each other, at ease with communication, and with whom you have full expectations for the future is our destiny!
Final advice:
Don't waste too much time on the wrong person, a person is not suitable for you, in fact, you already have an answer in your heart, but you don't want to admit this reality.