The recent outbreak has been raging
A large part of the country's students have restarted the "online class mode"
A mother in Linyi, Shandong
Followed the child to an online class for three days
Childish to the point of collapse and crying
Crying "Sisters I can't stand it anymore"
The mother complained about her son
The teacher said that he could not find it when he took out his textbook and turned the page
I watched him pick the eraser there
It's too hard to speak up
One step can't keep up, one step can't keep up
In fact
Parents and children stay under one roof for long periods of time
You think I'm not serious about online classes, and I think you manage too much
It is easy to have the emotion of looking at each other and hating each other
Sometimes it's a lot of noise
In this way, not only the child's learning progress has not kept up
Even the paternity relationship is affected
So, stay home during online classes
The way parents get along is also very exquisite
Only by mastering this knowledge can parents get along better with their children
Both reduce their own risk of "blood pressure spike"
It also makes the children's online classes more effective
Experts point it out sharply
At present, it reflects dissatisfaction with children's home online classes
Mostly from parents rather than children
Therefore, the child's psychological adjustment should also start from the parents
Loss
This year's children "only a few years in life, the epidemic accounted for three years"
When school was open and closed, I felt like I had read an incomplete book
At the same time, it is worried that this situation will be encountered in the future
Crisis
Feel that the child cannot learn normally at home
May be surpassed by others
There are also those who want their children to take this opportunity to overtake in curves
In short, I feel worried
Sense of disorder
I felt that I not only had a lot of things to worry about this time
He has also become a "teacher" around the clock
The whole life was a mess of porridge
I am also worried that I will not be able to do a good job as a teacher
I am afraid that my child will develop bad habits of delaying learning
Feelings of self-blame
Children are not unable to learn normally
Parents feel that if they do not tutor and manage their children well
Will be ashamed of the child
What to do as a parent
Be peaceful and rational and more constructive with your child
Get through this special period
Experts teach you 4 tricks of "addition, subtraction, multiplication and division"
Keep the rhythm to do addition
Home learning lacks the strict time management and supervision of teachers in schools, and if there is no good self-discipline, the learning rhythm is easy to mess up.
Do subtraction in response to change
When people experience sudden changes and pressures, they often need to go through an adaptation period in order to run into the new environment and return to normalcy. For example, it is found that children have poor concentration in online classes, are prone to tantrums, or are not easy to accept management. These may be that the child is adjusting himself to cope with change, which is a way and a process for him.
At this time, parents should face it with an inclusive and calm attitude, be less impatient and accusatory, and calmly help their children adjust and adapt. Children are actually better at adapting to change, returning to normal life, and learning normalcy than adults.
Parent-child interaction does multiplication
Parents should give their children a good guide and demonstration - not flustered in difficulties, not monotonous in repetition, not addicted in entertainment, so as to create an optimistic, positive and tone of life and learning atmosphere with children.
Can't go out and exercise? At home, PK flat supports, PK push-ups, jump ropes, etc. to carry out exercise; can not go out to dinner, parents and children can make a healthy meal for themselves in the kitchen together. The positive interaction between parents and children can double the happiness and the positive energy.
Improve efficiency by doing division
As a "denominator" family environment, the less anxious and irritable the parents are, or do not expose too many negative emotions in front of the child, the stronger the child's self-consciousness and concentration. If you cooperate with school teachers to guide children appropriately, the child's learning efficiency will be more improved.
In short, parents have to remember
The meaning of parenthood
It is not to give children a comfortable and affluent life
It's when you think you're a parent
Your heart will be full of strength and you will feel warm
Thus having the courage and ability to overcome difficulties
Lead your child to grow in life together
Finally, pray for the early receding of the epidemic
The Divine Beast returned to the cage early
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