How much money can a mother spend on her children that can be very willing? I think most of the mothers will be willing, like Li Xiang once said a sentence " I took my life in exchange for the treasure, why not give her the best." Indeed, this is also the voice of every mother, but everyone does not know that the future of the child cannot be exchanged for how much money.
Ever since I had children, I felt reluctant to spend money on myself. Before becoming a mother, when you buy a set of cosmetics, you must at least have four figures to feel worthy of your own face. Shoes, bags and clothes, as long as they are good, would rather eat soil for a month than take it off.
However, after the existence of these situations, none of these situations exist. Spending money yourself is necessary to give up, and only by spending money on your children can you feel that it is deserved.
I know that many mothers are the same as me, spending money on their children, that is called investing in the future, is to give the family the greatest hope of investment, of course, no matter the loss is very willing. Therefore, some mothers are very willing to spend money on their children, and they feel that they are great. In fact, this understanding is not correct, or it is very one-sided.
Once, because I was too busy at work, I thought of sending my children back to my hometown. A friend of mine was surprised to hear that and she asked, "Why are you doing this?" I said, "Of course it's to make more money and give your kids a better life." ”
Then, a friend's words awakened me, she said that parents do not give their children a lot of money, they can let their children have a good life and a bright future. The growth of the child needs the company of the parents and the precious time you spend to make money for the child, and as a result, the child's growth has problems, which money cannot buy.
It is true that there are many such parents around us, who are willing to spend money on their children, but they cannot accompany their children when they need their parents' company the most, and as a result, the children are wasted and cannot be bought back at how much money they spend.
If you are also a wise mother, you have to change your mind and be willing to invest in your children in these aspects, and your children will be very good in the future.
The wiser the mother, the more she knows how to invest in these aspects, and the better the child will be in the future
Mothers invest more in the time they spend with their children.
Whether to take the child or go out to work is a real problem that many mothers need to face. I think the company of children is still very important, of course, making money is also very important. Of course, it is best to be able to both have children and make money, but when there is a conflict between the two, I think it is even greater for mothers to choose to accompany their children.
For most working mothers, they work while still carrying their children with them. I think balancing the relationship between work and children can still be done by trying to adjust.
Work time to go to work, there will always be weekends, there are evening time to spend more time with the child, not necessarily to make a two-out-of-one decision.
Mothers must be willing to invest in the time spent with their children, and we can spend a lot of time with our children, but we must give our children high-quality companionship.
For example, we have more pleasant discussions and conversations with the child, we have intimate interactive games with the child, take the child to participate in their own social activities, and let him learn how to treat people and things. The mother's companionship of the child must really use the heart on the child, which is the effective companionship, and the real time investment is given to the child.
Mothers invest more in the funding of their children's upbringing and education.
Most mothers, for the investment of their children, the most willing is to spend money. Of course, this is also a very important aspect. The child's upbringing costs money, and the child's food, clothing, and use should be of good quality, which is good for the child, and the cost of money is also relatively large.
When your children grow up, you will find that the money spent on raising children is only a dime. Children's education is the real money-burning project.
Take the cultivation of children's interests and hobbies, children like to ski, can we take our children to learn? Sure, but every hour there is a lot of tuition, and if the child skates well, it is a lot of money to go to the game.
Therefore, many children's education programs are very expensive. If we want to raise a good child, the investment in funds is indispensable.
Invest more in developing your child's hands-on skills.
Many parents attach great importance to the cultivation of children's intellectual development and pay attention to their children's academic performance, but there are many examples of people around us, and parents have cultivated a "high score and low energy" child. The child's hands-on ability is very poor, almost a life "giant baby".
Children's hands-on ability needs to be cultivated a little bit, from the child's own clothing, eating, to the child's ability to help parents do housework, to the child's ability to live independently, the mother needs to have patience to invest, but also need to have time investment. Mothers attach importance to their children's investment in this regard, so that children can become a truly excellent and capable person.
Moms invest more in exercising their children's bodies.
Under the epidemic situation, let us understand that a healthy body is the most important, adults are like this, children are like this. We love children, but also to do a better job of scientific parenting, children's diet should be healthy, children's physical exercise should also be cultivated, children grow up healthy and healthy, in order to make great achievements in the future.
Kutani Youlan suggests: Children are the hope of parents, and we use the love and money for children just right. The cultivation of children is indispensable to money, and the same children's spiritual world is also indispensable to the companionship of parents. I hope that in addition to work, parents can also share some time for their children to become a very good person.