There is a line in the TV series "Mr. Love":
"The word love is by no means illusory or spiritual, but objective, material, and the result of a series of chemical reactions."
It is true that a truly long-lasting relationship is never maintained by a touch of emotion at first sight, but by touching each other in daily life.
This is the way the world is, no one is good to you for no reason, and no one will love you for no reason.
The reason why he can't leave you is only because of something in you that makes it difficult for him to give up.
In daily life, the women who can really make men really forget and can't be separated are often the following three kinds of women.
Will spoil and give him a sense of presence
Bi Shumin once said:
"Softness is sometimes more powerful than a storm."
This is true in life, and it is also true in feelings.
In a relationship, if two people have a conflict, the stupid woman will be aggressive and aggressive, while the smart woman will show weakness and spoil, warm the man's hardness with softness, solve the problem better, and achieve their own goals.
I once watched a video like this:
A couple, because of how to use a room, there is a dispute, the husband wants to change the room into a game room, so that after work can play games to relax.
The wife wanted to change the room into a practice room so that she could play the piano and enjoy her body and mind.
In this way, both people have their own persistence, and neither of them will retreat.
In the face of such a situation, perhaps many women will think of arguing to win, but the woman in the video is not.
Instead, he softened, then looked at the man with grievance and said, "Just let the man go!" I really want to play the piano. ”
In the face of the woman's sudden pampering, the man who was still scrappy became helpless, and finally insisted on it, and took the initiative to give in.
Someone said:
"Spoiling is the most effective weapon for women to pinch men."
Men are like this a lot of times, they like the feeling of being relied on, if a woman will spoil, then it is equivalent to grasping the weakness of men.
Such a woman can not only resolve the contradiction silently, but also touch the softest corner of a man's heart, and eventually make the feelings more warm and make the men more affectionate.
Can be gentle, but can relieve his tiredness
Perhaps in many people's minds, men are strong.
But in this fast-paced era, almost everyone will have a lot of pressure and feel physically and mentally exhausted.
Too often, the strength shown by men is just a kind of arrogance that hides the sadness in the heart.
In the moment of loneliness and helplessness, they will also hope that there is such a person who can understand his difficulties and can care for his vulnerability.
In the TV series "Under the Warm Sun", Li Junlong and his friends jointly opened an investment company.
But later, due to the misappropriation of the company's funds by friends, the company fell into a huge crisis, and may even cause lawsuits.
At that moment, Li Junlong can be said to be the most difficult time, and he even thought of saving his family through divorce.
And when he talked to his wife about this matter with ease on the surface, her wife only said softly: "With me, no matter what I encounter, I will share the burden with you." ”
Although it was only a sentence, Li Junlong hugged his wife tightly and said: "Meeting you is my greatest blessing." ”
There is a saying:
"The best understanding in the world is not only to understand what you say, but also to understand what you didn't say." Understand your strength, understand your vulnerability, understand your joy, understand your sadness, understand the scenery in front of you, and understand the pain and sorrow behind you. ”
What really drives love is not intense love, but trivial time.
True love is also in the details.
When a woman can soothe his sorrow with tenderness when he is most helpless, then it will make men full of emotions.
In the end, all the emotions will be transformed into true feelings in the depths of the heart.
Can be independent, can make him appreciate
A female writer in Hong Kong said:
"An independent, cheerful and attractive woman is the type that men want the most. Her world is colorful and fulfilling.
She does not complain that men see her less, nor does she envy the big world of men themselves, she has her own world.
A woman who doesn't disrupt the high-ranking items on the men's leaderboard is the woman who will raise her level. "
The best love is always a match, relying on each other, the woman who makes men appreciate and can't put it down, and it must also be an excellent and dazzling woman.
I have seen such a story on the Internet:
There is a woman whose husband is a big boss with a successful career, and it can be said that there are many temptations around her.
But after more than 10 years of marriage, the two people are still in love, and her husband has never had any messy lace news.
Many people are envious of her finding a good man who has the ability and dedication.
But in fact, the reason why she has such happy feelings is only because she really deserves it.
Although she does not have a husband to achieve brilliant achievements, but she is also an executive of a public company, whether it is the level of income, or ability, so that too many people can only look back.
It is precisely because she is independent and she is excellent, so she let her husband hold it in the palm of his hand, afraid that if he is not careful, he will lose it.
Writer Suzen said:
"The best way to love someone is to run yourself well and give the other person a quality lover."
In this secular world, to get the love of others, it is never by luck, of course, not by flattery, but by excellence.
When you are radiant enough, then in the end it will naturally make men obsessed, so that they can't leave and can't put it down.
Loving someone is never without reason.
Long-term feelings need to constantly give each other touch to keep fresh.
As a woman, if you want a sweet and happy relationship, then you know how to do the above three things.
Then embrace longer relationships and get more stable happiness.
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Author: Away from the rain slightly cool, a rational, emotional, like to use words to express personal views, bring you spiritual healing, emotional solution, life perception of the post-90s writer.