Faye Wong's "I Do" has a lyric:
"Thoughts are a very mysterious thing, like shadows, silent and haunting the bottom of the heart."
Thoughts and love are always accompanied, whether men or women, once they fall in love, then it is bound to be derived from thoughts.
However, the difference is that men often hide their thoughts in secret, although they do not speak but can express affection in action.
And women think of a person, often overflowing with words, whether it is happy and sad, or inner secrets, always want to share with each other.
A woman's love, in fact, is so simple and obvious.
When she only asks you to share her joys and sorrows, to share her innermost secrets, then it is only because of the heart.
Share the joy
I don't know if you're going to feel that way, that is, when you've achieved something and met something interesting.
Then the first thing that comes to mind is the person you care about the most, and you want to share these things with him immediately.
In fact, the same is true in feelings, women are emotional and sensitive, and sharing joy with their loved ones in their hearts is a kind of happiness.
I once watched a video like this:
At the end of the year, a girl received a company-level advanced individual.
When the award was over, she did not greet her colleagues or send a circle of friends to show off, but eagerly dialed a boy's phone and told him the news.
When she heard the boy's blessing to him, although it was simply a "I am really happy for you", the girl's face was full of happiness.
I really like this sentence:
"We always want to share with the most important people when it matters most."
Whether a woman loves or does not love, it is always particularly clear.
When she doesn't like you, then I believe that she will not even have the mood to take the initiative to message you, so how can she share her most important moments with you in the first place?
On the contrary, being a woman will always share her achievements and joy with you.
Then it can only mean that you are very important in her heart, the person she desperately wants to be happy with.
Share grief
I once saw such a sentence in "Strawberry Life":
"I like rational people, but in front of people I like, I want to have the right to be spoiled."
No matter how strong a woman looks, in front of the person she likes, she will always be unable to help but put away the hard, habitually become sensual and weak.
When a woman can put away her strength in front of you and show the most vulnerable side in front of you, then you can only say that you are the person she is willing to trust.
In the TV series "Under the Warm Sun", Song Sining is the human resources director of a large enterprise, decisive and typical of strong women.
She was always strong in front of outsiders and never showed her sadness and vulnerability, even in front of her parents.
Only when confronted with her husband, Li Junlong, would she let go of all disguises.
There is such a plot, due to the company's drastic layoffs, she is under a lot of pressure.
Only when she returned home could she completely relax. And he will say to her husband Li Junlong: "If I lose my job, you will support me!" ”
Zhang Xiaoxian said:
"We're all lonely until we meet someone else and let us know that life can be less lonely."
For women, they do not easily reveal vulnerability in front of outsiders, because they understand that the world does not believe in tears, and of course they are not willing to reveal vulnerability in front of outsiders.
But in the face of the deeply loved ones, they will like to be weak and weak, so they want to feel a kind of happiness that is cared for by their beloved.
Share secrets
Ancient Cloud:
"If you want to pay your heart to Yaoqin, you know little, and who listens to the broken strings."
Everyone in life will have their own secrets, these secrets are hidden in the heart, we will not tell outsiders, we are not willing to tell girlfriends and friends.
Only the one who can go deep into the heart can open the heart of a woman and let them share the secrets of the heart.
In the TV series "Know It or Not", Sheng Minglan was eccentric because of the early death of her young mother and her father, so it can be said that she is a person who lives very carefully and cautiously.
A lot of things, she will bury deep in her heart, never tell others.
However, when she married Gu Tingye, she slowly changed.
She would tell Gu Tingye about her little bride that had been buried in her heart for more than ten years; she would also tell Gu Tingye all her heartbreak secrets.
In fact, from the moment she told Gu Tingye the secret, we can see that Sheng Minglan poured her heart into Gu Tingye.
It is precisely because of sincere belief that it can be entrusted without reservation.
He Jiong once said:
"In a relationship, what matters is not appearance, not bread, not even loyalty, but sharing."
In life, everyone will have a lot of secrets, no one can say, of course, do not want to say.
And when a woman will confide in you and tell you everything in her heart, then it can only show that in her heart you are the one who is worthy of her dependence and trust.
Someone said:
"The greatest blessing in a person's life is to meet someone who is willing to share their joys and sorrows, who is willing to share all their secrets."
Women are soft and sensual inside.
When she can take the initiative to share the above three things with you, then it means that you are very important in her heart, and you should cherish it when you meet it.
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Author: Away from the rain slightly cool, a rational, emotional, like to use words to express personal views, bring you spiritual healing, emotional solution, life perception of the post-90s writer.