In life, everyone hopes that their dreams can come true and that they can have a bright future.
However, there is no luck in the world to fall from the sky, and there is no empty future.
If you want to live really well, the ultimate look is whether you have inherited the excellent quality of this good luck and blessing.
So what are the most important traits that determine a person's future?
In fact, if we look closely, we will find that those who can really live well often have these three kinds of capital.
mentality
As the old saying goes:
"If the heart is happy, it is beautiful, and if the heart is sad, it is sad."
The long road of life, there will always be waves, there will always be difficulties, and mentality is the most important chip for people to turn over in difficulties.
If people have a bad mentality, then anyone who is a little windy and sloppy may make themselves stagnant from now on, and their lives will be a mess.
Only when people have a good mentality, can they calmly face the twists and turns of the predicament, so as to better spend the dim time and usher in the willow dark flowers.
In the TV series "Good Life", the heroine Wu You, like her name, is an extremely optimistic person.
In life, Wu You, like many ordinary people, has also encountered a lot of troubles and has a lot of troubles.
On the day of the relationship, the license was broken up due to an accident, and there was an eccentric boss at work who has been looking for trouble for himself, and when communicating with customers, he will be rejected in various ways...
However, no matter what difficulties he encountered, Wu You never complained about the world, but always carried the sun in his heart and was full of enthusiasm for the future.
In the end, in the twists and turns, Wu You continued to make progress and grow, not only had an increasingly brilliant career, but also met the best love.
Semour said:
"The world is like a mirror: frowning at it, it is also frowning at you; laughing at it, it is also smiling at you."
Many of the world's predicaments are not as serious as we think, and many times we are just trying to set shackles on ourselves.
When you always have a good attitude and always smile to face everything, then you will become stronger and stronger, and your life will become more and more exciting.
endeavor
Writer Liu Tong said:
"You have to work really hard to look effortless."
For most ordinary people, there is no way to change their fate, just effort.
Perhaps, many times in life, we will fall into doubts because of the lack of reward for a short period of effort, and even think that the effort is useless.
But, in fact, your daily efforts are transforming you, and of course this transformation may be so small that you are not aware of it.
However, if you can keep working hard, for a year, ten years, eventually it will make you have a different life.
I have seen such a story on the Internet:
A girl works alone in a big city, and she strives to move forward every day, to work hard, to fight hard for her future.
Of course, there is no shortage of voices around her: "Like us powerless people, no amount of effort will be useful!" ”
But she just silently cultivated herself.
In this way, ten years later, she continued to improve, and finally became the general manager of a large company, achieving a leap in her life.
Tao Yuanming once wrote:
"Diligent study is like a seedling in the spring, not seeing its increase, and growing day by day." Dropping out of school is like a whetstone, and it is not seen that it loses every day. ”
Effort is never useless, on the contrary, it is the only way for too many ordinary ordinary people to create miracles.
The reason why you feel that your efforts have not been rewarded is only because your efforts are not enough, or your efforts are only three minutes of heat.
character
Confucius said:
"We have both ability and political integrity, led by virtue."
Life can be without a degree, but it cannot be without learning, let alone without character, and character is the highest degree.
If your character is not good, then no matter how talented you are, no matter how talented you are, you can only be isolated by everyone and narrow your own path.
Only when your character passes, then you can have someone to help you in case of trouble, and the road will be wider and wider.
In the TV series "Under the Warm Sun", there is such a plot that Li Junlong's company has encountered unprecedented difficulties because of the problem of partners.
But even so, he never wanted to leave his partner alone, but wanted two people to support each other to get through the difficulties.
But the partner was selfish and stingy, not only did not recognize his friendship, but almost ruined the company's hard-won investment.
In the end, in desperation, Li Junlong decided to separate from his partners.
At the time of separation, although Li Junlong left from scratch, everyone in the company chose to side with Li Junlong.
I really like this sentence:
"There are endless skills in the world, only the virtuous can exert their strength, the world is unpredictable, and only character can stand for a lifetime."
In life, no one is stupid, everyone will have an account in their hearts, only if your character is good, then you can be trusted, and eventually let yourself go higher and farther.
There is a saying:
"All the gifts in the world are secretly priced."
There is no luck in life for no reason, and there is no good life for no reason.
Only when you have a good mentality, good character, and enough hard work, then you can break through layers of obstacles and have a brilliant life in the mud and sand.
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