Gu Qingyu and Shi Yuan have been married for less than a year, and they have lived an embarrassing life of playing mobile phones back-to-back, let's take a look at Shi Yuan, who married a strong woman
Psychological stress
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Since Feng Shaofeng and Zhao Liying divorced, Feng Shaofeng has taken on the role of the image of the fallen uncle, such as the fallen reporter in "Fatal Wish", and the recent tour guide in "Heart Residence", and even this time the role he plays is the most depressed and the most depressed, only because he married a strong woman.
In the eyes of outsiders in the play, Shi Yuan, a middle school student, married Gu Qingyu, an executive of a foreign company, which is the act of burning high incense on the ancestors, so he should be grateful to obey her and become Gu Qingyu's xiannai helper at home.
But Shi Yuan has his own dignity, and the education he received since he was a child does not allow him to eat and wear Gu Qingyu, but Gu Qingyu has always been in a strong position, and it has become a matter of habit to dominate the development of all aspects.
Gu Qingyu secretly bought Shi Yuan's piano and "tricked" him into raising his mother's operating expenses, Gu Qingyu wanted to solve Shi Yuan's worries and difficulties, but Shi Yuan did not think so in his heart:
I am a big man, even if you don't have the ability, you have to eat and drink yours, even my mother's money for medical treatment must be paid by you, then what is my man's face!
But Shi Yuan did not erupt, and the anger in his heart under his strong pressure did not communicate with Gu Qingyu, which became the fuse for the outbreak of emotional problems in the future.
However, Gu Qingyu felt that he did not put too much pressure on Shi Yuan, gave him enough freedom, and became Shi Yuan's strongest backing, but in Shi Yuan's view, Gu Qingyu's way of becoming a backing suppressed his self-esteem.
Take Shi Yuan's acceptance of offers from large companies, he originally thought that his talent had finally been seen, and he had a world to display his talents. But when he learned that all this was just a word from Gu Qingyu, Shi Yuan's ecstatic heart suddenly cooled.
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In Shi Yuan's heart, he had become a waste that would only rely on women. After a long time, Shi Yuan was unwilling to tell Gu Qingyu what he had in his heart, and this marriage evolved into an embarrassing situation of playing with mobile phones back to back.
Shi Yuan's various behaviors are silently telling Gu Qingyu that he doesn't need your mercy and relief, and you will only put more pressure on me!
But Gu Qingyu never changed her behavior, she thought to herself that she was doing good for Shi Yuan, in order to give Shi Yuan a broader sky.
Gu Qingyu helped Shi Yuan pay for the operation, she knew in her heart that Shi Yuan did not want to help herself, but she still concealed that the other party paid the medical expenses, thinking that this was for Shi Yuan's good.
Xiaobian boldly guessed that in the future, Shi Yuan will definitely have a big fight after knowing this matter, even to the point of divorce, after all, Gu Qingyu's strong woman thinking has never changed, which makes Shi Yuan feel pressure.
Respect and communication are important in the daily communication between husband and wife.
And Gu Qingyu's family, they just lack this most critical communication, Shi Yuan does not want to rely on women, does not want Gu Qingyu to treat himself with pity, but he has never mentioned this matter.
Gu Qingyu thought that as long as he helped Shi Yuan solve the problem of money, it would be good for Shi Yuan and good for this family, but he had never understood Shi Yuan's real thoughts, nor did he let Shi Yuan understand his own ideas.
Don't look at this is a small problem in the play, in reality many couples have such a problem, thinking that what they are doing is for each other's good, but never consider each other's feelings, and after a long time, this marriage will come to an end.
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