When it comes to having boys and girls, although people can't decide for themselves, they always like to make choices. With the liberalization of the mainland's two-child policy, many families have a second child, and generally speaking, of course, it is the happiest for both children and daughters. But sometimes not everyone can do it, so there are many families with two sons or two daughters.
Many people shake their heads when they hear that others have two boys in a row, feeling too much pressure for their parents. So that in a ranking, the happiest second-child family is the two children, followed by two girls, and the bottom of the list is the family of two sons.
But are two sons really a burden? The answer, of course, is no. If from an economic point of view, it is true that the burden on two boys is a little heavier so far than that of two girls, it seems to be nothing more.
Boys will also have sweetness, and their sweetness is often something that girls cannot give.
Boys are braver
This should be well understood, boys and girls are originally two different groups, although each group will have its own advantages, but from the point of view of bravery alone, most girls are ashamed of themselves in front of boys.
In the neighborhood, a mother's son was walking, and suddenly a big dog kept barking at them, which looked very scary. Because this mother has been afraid of dogs since she was a child, she is obviously a little nervous at this time, and she wants to quickly avoid the side by pulling the child.
But the big dog still didn't budge, even taking a few steps forward toward them. Before his mother could scream, the boy bravely stood in front of his mother, as if he were a flower protector.
Such a brave boy, who wouldn't like it?
Warmer men are warmer
We often call those cute and warm-hearted little boys warm men, and what these little boys can bring to their parents is more than warmth, but also surprises. After all, in most people's hearts, the daughter is the intimate little cotton jacket, and the son is often leaky.
One mother had a cold and fever due to a cold, and the whole person was groggy. During the day she lay at home for a day, but there did not seem to be any significant improvement in her condition.
At 5 p.m., my son, who was in elementary school, came home from school. The first thing he did was to run to his mother's bed, take a cup of warm boiled water, and let her mother drink it quickly. Then he asked his mother with concern whether she had taken her medicine on time? He even went to the kitchen to pan for rice, ready to boil porridge for his mother to drink.
Such a boy, will he still leak wind?
Boys are better to bring
We all say that girls are made of water, and often tears will flow from their eyes. Compared with boys, girls' emotions are more delicate, but it also means that they will be more sensitive, and a little thing can cause their emotions to fluctuate.
Xiaomei is a little girl in kindergarten, and after coming home from school today, she didn't eat on time because she was playing for a while, so she was said by her mother. But I didn't expect Xiaomei to make her mother cry, and finally ran to her father's arms to complain, and Xiaomei coaxed her for a long time to coax her well.
Small things like this happen almost every day in Xiaomei's house. Over time, the mother naturally felt physically and mentally exhausted, and could not help but feel that it was too difficult to take her daughter. In contrast, the neighbor's son is much better, has no heart and lungs every day, and rarely cries.
Even if the boy grows up, he will let the parents worry less, and I have to say that they are really good.
In fact, whether it is a boy or a girl, they are the burden of their parents or the pride of their parents, which depends entirely on the education of their parents. If the parents are well educated, even two sons will make the parents feel sweet, but if the parents are not properly educated, the daughter will also become rebellious.
How should parents educate their children?
We believe that the vast majority of parents truly love their children, they want their children to be able to stand out, and they hope that their children can be happy and happy.
But in the way children are educated, they will have different choices. Some parents only know how to ask their children, but they are never willing to spend time with their children and educate their children, so it is naturally difficult to educate their children well, and it is really possible for their children to become their own burdens and suffer for their children for a lifetime.
On the contrary, if parents can spend time and energy on their children, they can accompany their children and improve themselves with them. Then parents will become children's role models invisibly, and when they show positive energy everywhere, children will naturally become excellent unconsciously.
So don't worry about whether the child is male or female, because no matter what gender the child has, they may be in a good family education, so that the parents are in the sweet every day.