After watching a short drama, a premature mother came to the hospital, and the nurse said to the family, the situation is not optimistic, you must be mentally prepared.
A moment later, the child was born, and as soon as the nurse came out, the mother-in-law smiled and asked: Nurse, boy, girl? Husband: Is the child all right, is it safe? They are all immersed in the joy of the birth of their children.
And the mother of the mother looked nervous and asked: What about my daughter, how is she? My daughter didn't dare to get injections since she was a child, and she must have been very scared inside. Tears fell as he spoke.
The note left by the mother to the mother reads: Mom, if there is an accident, you must first protect the child.
At any time, mothers always remember their children.
From the birth of the mother, we can see the difference between grandma and grandma. In fact, from pregnancy to childbirth, from confinement to baby, the performance of grandma and grandma is not the same, what will it be like in general?
According to the reaction of most netizens, I summarized several aspects, which seem a bit ironic and may cause dissatisfaction from grandma, but it is not to belittle a certain party, but just to say some representative phenomena, and if there is no change, it is encouraged.
When pregnant
Grandma generally thinks about making the mother eat well and pay attention to the body, more for the sake of fetal health in the abdomen. The appetite is not good, for the sake of the fetus in the abdomen, you should also eat more.
Grandma generally thinks that let the mother eat well and pay attention to the body, for the sake of the mother's own health.
Bad appetite, what you want to eat, your mother to do it for you, you must not be wronged yourself.
When giving birth
Grandma was outside, worried about when the child would come out, boy or girl? How many pounds? Healthy, right?
Grandma is worried about her daughter outside, hoping to give birth smoothly, and her daughter will suffer less.
At the time of confinement and weaning after giving birth
Grandma said, eat more, drink more soup, or the milk is not enough for the child to eat.
Grandma said, don't get out of bed, don't sit for a long time, lie down more, don't wash your hair, don't eat cold food, wear more clothes, etc., or you won't be in trouble if you fall ill. Eat more nutritious supplements to the body.
When with children
Grandma, I look at the children, you should do something, do something, do the housework, etc. Baby calls Grandma.
Grandma, I look at the children, you rest, sleep a little, or go out for a walk. Baby calls mom.
epilogue
After reading it, do you feel that the content is too real?
Because the roles of grandma and grandma are different, the perspective of looking at the problem is not the same, grandma is sad for grandchildren, and grandma is sad for her daughter.
Although many mothers-in-law today are good mothers-in-law, treat their daughters-in-law as girls, and are also very good to their daughters-in-law, but their grandchildren are more intimate, so many times they can't help themselves, and what they show is to think about their grandchildren.
And in the eyes of mothers, daughters are always daughters, as we often say: Mother's world is big, so big that you can endure it; Mother's world is very small, so small that there is only you in your eyes.
Therefore, there is a chance to come together, become a family, understand each other, communicate more, and the family will be happier!
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