In today's society, parents have realized the importance of learning chess for children's growth, but sending children to training institutions without paying attention is the norm, in the end, relying solely on club learning and difficult learning process, it is difficult for children's chess skills to grow rapidly, and their self-confidence is easily affected, and parents' complaints and incomprehension make children feel more pressure. "Playing chess with children" can effectively solve this problem.
Don't use the excuse of "not playing chess"
Learning chess is a skill to learn, and it is far from being as difficult as we think. Compared with children, adults understand the rules of chess more easily and get started more easily. During this period, parents are the leaders of their children's entry. After the end of the child's course, ask the child about the results of learning chess, the interesting things encountered, what problems have not been solved, and help the child record the learning process so that we can understand the child's learning process, stimulate the child's desire to perform, and improve the child's interest in learning chess.
Insist on playing games with children for a long time
When the child becomes interested, the parents will not be so hard, and the child will already take the initiative to plan learning. Don't think that at this time, parents can "retire from success", the parents' chess skills at this time are only at the basic class level, and the child's chess style has not yet been fixed. In this period, we must insist on playing with children to communicate, in the game, children gradually learn to deal with their own way, we will have an understanding of the changes in emotions after the child wins or loses, whether the chess path is in a hurry, whether it is serious about the chess game, etc., and correct some of its bad habits.
Treat wins and losses with a normal heart, and rewards and punishments are determined according to ability
Play chess with their children, there are many parents will go through the "pretend to let the child win the chess can be half-hearted and half-hearted and the child must be serious about the half-loss and half-win is surpassed" mental process, will have a deeper understanding of the child's efforts to grow up, in the game, parents will put pressure on the child according to the actual situation, not only to judge the results of winning and losing, let the child grow up with the parents, further improve their chess strength, improve competitiveness, and strive for more victories.
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