In the past, women had children at home with their own babies, but now unprecedented changes have taken place, and now, we young people are particularly busy, busy earning money, busy socializing, busy how to whitewash themselves? But with the birth of a school child, how do we balance it? The best thing to do is to give your children to the elderly at home to bring.
Fortunately, most of the elderly now have money and leisure, and with the improvement of living standards, the physical level of the elderly is also constantly improving, that is, by them to take children, naturally the most suitable candidates, not only safe and secure, but also they have experience and ability.
Speaking of which, this would have been a very fortunate thing, but when young people go home and find that the old people are so baby,they feel that it is wrong to take the baby in this way, and often because the old man helps us with the child, there is an emotional gap.
Isn't it? Xiao Yang of our unit encountered such a thing.
The lamb resumed work soon after giving birth to the child, and his child was brought by his mother-in-law, but he felt that the old man had a great drawback with the child, so he took the initiative to take the responsibility of taking the child in his spare time.
But to her surprise, the child felt particularly susceptible to illness since she had brought her with her. Why is the mother-in-law still quite angry, saying that she is stubborn and does not consider it? Xiao Yang worked while carrying the hard work of the baby, so that the baby was physically and mentally tired, and at the same time felt very wronged.
In fact, around us, it is not difficult to find that there are some children brought up by the elderly, but it is particularly easy to get sick, but there are our young parents, their own children, but it is easy to get sick, why is this?
In fact, in the eyes of young people, some elderly people who are not optimistic about the behavior of taking babies are actually good for children.
First: After the child has eaten, take the child outside to play
There are some elderly people who habitually take their children out to play, on the one hand, the children are also basking in the sun and blowing the wind, and the elderly can also find a good opportunity to communicate with others.
But this, as young people, we can't do it, we prefer to stay at home and look at the phone, play with the computer, have time for the family to get together, think it's good, but in fact, this practice is just a drawback of parenting.
Take the child out to play after eating, you can digest the food in the child's belly very well, and go out to play for a while, which will also make the child's mood good, at the same time, it can also promote the circulation of the child's body's blood, and the body's requirements for oxygen supply will be met as it should be, so that the child will rarely get sick.
Second: Never stop your child from playing outside
In fact, this point is similar to the above, young people, do not want to go out to work, a day is very busy and tired, who does not want to nest at home for a while? That by us to take the child, the child is naturally not willing to exercise, but the situation of the elderly is different, they have time to take the child out to play, through an interaction with the crowd, the child is exposed to a large number of bacteria, but also improves the body's immunity, which makes the child's physical function become much better than when staying at home, so there are old people with such a large child is less likely to get sick, because their ability to resist germs is stronger.
At the same time, the general mood of children nestled at home is also relatively depressed and low, but if we often take children out to communicate with people, we will cultivate children to talk and talk, and the ability of strangers to build a little, for the psychological construction of children, it also has a very important protective effect.
On the road to parenting, we are all novices, how to take better care of children, you can pay attention to me, and discuss with me those things on the road to parenting.