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"When I was a child, I was a left-behind child, and now I am a left-behind woman. I am a college graduate, now at home every day wearing pajamas, in the countryside with a baby, several times I heard someone saying, this girl is really a book, went to college, and now at home like us is also with the baby, do housework. It's not a taste in my heart to hear, the days are too suffocating. ”
College classmates complained to me about her life now. I comforted her, this is only temporary, your husband has a high income, and the life of your family of three is not a problem at all. You can just take this opportunity to accompany your children and parents, how many people envy your life and can't envy it.
My college classmate and husband bought a house in a first-tier city, and who knew that she was pregnant before the house came down. Her husband has strong work ability and high salary, and she just wants to take a break before quitting, returning to her hometown to give birth, and living with her parents after giving birth. I want to wait until the new house is renovated and the children are older, take the children and parents to go over, and then find a new job. Unexpectedly, in her hometown, everyone saw her a college student at home with a baby, and secretly said that she had read in vain.
Going to school and reading is for life, taking a baby is also for life, there is nothing worth it or not
It is said that some girls have worked hard for more than ten years, been admitted to college, and some have gone to graduate school, but after getting married and having children, they have children at home. Many people will say with regret and sarcasm that the book is really a vain read, and it is really not worth going to school.
But I think that going to school and reading is for life, getting married and having children and having children is also for life, and there is nothing worth it that is not worth it. As for the high academic qualifications at home with a baby is a waste, it is impossible to say. Studying well, having a good education, and coming out with a good job is one thing. At the same time, reading and going to school can increase a person's cultivation background, change thinking, and also give children better counseling and education.
Those college students and graduate students at home full-time with a baby, children can accept one-on-one tutoring from their mothers, children cultivate good habits, lay a good foundation from an early age, and are excellent in the future, which cannot be exchanged for anything. Don't admit it, there is a high probability that a primary school graduate, a bachelor's degree, a graduate student, are also at home with a baby for three years, and the children's habits, emotional intelligence, and vision are different. Women with high diplomas choose to return to their families with their children, only temporarily making trade-offs in terms of children and careers.
Taking the baby is only temporary, and you must be ready to work at any time
Many people pity for those women with high education at home with children, but they just think that the girls themselves have such good conditions, such a good education, their own capital is much better than the average person, and finally they are still confined to children and kitchens. It was a waste of the country's cultivation and its own capacity.
I think those highly educated mothers with babies at home are only temporary choices based on reality. They may only temporarily take the baby at home when the child is young, and when the child is older, they can start working again at any time, play their own strengths in the workplace, and realize their own value.
Therefore, those mothers with high education at home with babies seem to have learned white, but in fact, they have not been white. Highly educated stay-at-home mothers are first of all good for their children's education and family management. In addition, academic qualifications are also a stepping stone, and highly educated mothers have more advantages in re-employment. Stay in the green mountains, not afraid of no firewood.
【Topic Discussion: Do you have highly educated women around you with children at home? 】
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