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Yesterday, the friend who was banned at home was completely "crazy", and sent a circle of friends in the middle of the night: If I am wrong, please let the law punish me, instead of torturing me like this.
Just now, the child was beaten by me. A seven-word poem is 28 words. Add the name and author of the ancient poem, up to 35 words. After two hours of carrying, it will not be, it is so difficult.
After beating the baby, I also reflected, is it the liver fire that causes the temper to be bad and irritable? Alas, I am really, really angry, and sooner or later I will be angry to death...
Although people's feelings are not the same, they still explode a large number of mothers who have not yet slept. Probably empathizing with this pain, they said one after another, "I don't know why, since becoming a mother, I always can't control my emotions, and I will get angry at every turn." ”
Alas, in fact, from the moment she conceived her child, every mother has told herself countless times to "be a gentle and patient good mother, leave all your love to the little one, and let him grow up in a family environment full of security and happiness."
However, as the child grows up, the mother will find that it is indeed more relaxed and comfortable to raise a baby. Once upon a time, brushing the circle of friends to see the cute and cute appearance of other people's children, it was really full of aunt smiles, eager to reach out rua. Now every time I go home and see my own baby rubbing my homework with an eraser, I can't help but want to get angry.
Why, in the end, why did a girl who used to be so gentle become grumpy and unable to control her small emotions when she became a mother? There are two main root causes:
Taking on too much responsibility and pressure alone
Whenever the mother is mentioned, the most people think of is the description of "mother is just" and "superhuman mother". But know, no woman wants to be an omnipotent, indestructible superman.
But after becoming a mother, it means that the responsibility on the shoulders is aggravated. During the day, it is a working dog who is busy with life and strives to make money.
When you come home from work and don't have time to catch your breath, your child will just run over and stick to your body, or walk around you, creating all kinds of small troubles from time to time.
And this side has just cleaned up the home, sorted out various toys, and been thrown everywhere by children, which is one of the daily operations that test the mother's patience.
Alas, every time you have to meditate on "His own, he is innocent." But think about the sink where there are still piles of dishes that have not been brushed, the floor has not been dragged, and the freshly washed clothes in the washing machine have not yet been taken out to dry.
Then turn his head to look at the slumped on the sofa, watching TV with Erlang's legs crossed, and from time to time to avoid being disturbed by the child, he directly sent the baby to "go to find the mother" teammate. Alas, I am really tired, and the grumpy little monster in my heart will be released in an instant.
Pick up the grinding essence and learn the scum, and challenge the bottom line of the mother at any time
Although there is a saying that the scum is here to repay the favor, as the mother of the scum, every time she sees the child's tragic score, she does not even have the courage to bubble up and speak in the class group.
Usually, it is still possible to achieve motherly kindness and filial piety, but as long as the homework is tutored, the harmonious parent-child relationship will also become the plot of chicken flying dog jumping.
Alas, they also want to explain gently and patiently, but Xuezhuva always has the ability to challenge her mother's bottom line, and her mother's heart beats faster and wants to vomit blood.
In addition to learning scum, there is also a grinding essence that makes mothers love and hate. To sleep is to touch the back, but also to let the children's songs, toss people over and over.
In the middle of the night, even the cats in the house slept, and the sleeping grinder still had big eyes that flickered. It was hard to be coaxed to sleep, and as a result, I had to eat seven or eight night milks at night. Alas, even if the mother is tired and will fall to the ground the next second, she still has to insist on feeding the baby to sleep.
Finally, I would like to say that in fact, mothers do not want to lose their temper, but it is too tiring to carry the weight alone. Time flies, and what they are left with is full of exhaustion and the strength and irritability in the eyes of outsiders. So, please don't blame them.
Senior Nursery Teacher, Psychological Counselor, Author of Original Parenting Comics Articles,
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