In your heart, do you think that the mother-in-law should bring grandchildren?
People say that between the mother-in-law and the daughter-in-law, ten years ago to see the mother-in-law, ten years later to see the daughter-in-law, the mother-in-law's attitude towards the daughter-in-law directly determines the attitude of the daughter-in-law to the mother-in-law after the elderly.
A woman has just given birth to a child in a few years, and it is the time when help is most needed, the child
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Can not be separated from adults, the family's health, eating problems need to be personally started, if the mother-in-law can provide some help at this time, help with the child, then I think the daughter-in-law will remember this feeling in her heart, in the future days with sincerity to treat the mother-in-law.
Recently, a woman posted a video on her social platform, saying that she is a mother-in-law, but she will not take her grandchildren at home and keep time for herself, which has aroused heated discussion among many netizens.
It is reported that she is not the only one who has this idea of a woman, but also many like-minded friends, and more than a dozen people have formed a small circle of friends.
Among them, they are all people who are close to the age of women and have become mothers-in-law. But even so, it did not stop myself from playing in the end.
In the video, we can see that the woman and her friends are in a famous scenic spot, and when they come to a wide square, they think of shooting a video as a souvenir.
So friends began to swing the formation, each wearing a dress of different colors, forming a beautiful landscape at the same time, but also let go of their own mood.
Although the age of the woman and her friends is more than 50 years old, she is much younger than her peers in terms of clothing and full of spirit.
These people also have some careful machines in their clothing, and there are two long ribbons attached behind the shoulders of the dress, and the breeze blows when they walk, and the ribbon flutters in the wind.
I saw women and friends lined up in a line, distinguished by the color of their dresses, and under the cheerful music, they walked forward together, exerting their confidence and pride to the extreme.
If it is just a simple video, netizens will only feel that these people's mentality is very young, and they will not think of anything else. What can cause controversy among netizens is a passage that the woman accompanied in the video.
The woman in the video with the text: we are all mother-in-law, the age has been 50+, but we will not be at home with grandchildren, the rest of life is not long, we want to keep time for ourselves, this is not selfish, but the outlook on life is different, there is no right or wrong.
A simple paragraph shows that women are not willing to only live at home with grandchildren, they believe that the son has been raised to start a family, although the daughter-in-law has given birth to a grandson, but this can not be a reason for themselves to take their grandchildren at home, they still have a lot of good time, do not want to waste their days on the matter of taking grandchildren.
Lao Yu wanted to say
I don't know what my daughter-in-law would think if she saw her mother-in-law say these words? Since the mother-in-law did not help when the daughter-in-law needed the mother-in-law the most, will the daughter-in-law willingly take care of the mother-in-law when the mother-in-law is old and needs the care of the daughter-in-law? The answer is already very obvious.
Does this outlook on life also mean that these people do not need the care of their daughters-in-law when they are old, and does it mean that they will not bring any trouble in life to their sons and daughters-in-law in the future?
Many netizens see that the woman's psychology is very angry, perhaps thinking of their own experience, can't help but joke to the woman, we are daughters-in-law, we will not take care of the in-laws in the future, the rest of our lives are not long, we also want to keep the time for ourselves.
This comment has resonated with many netizens, although there is no explicit provision that the mother-in-law must bring grandchildren, but in our hearts, the mother-in-law and the son and daughter-in-law are a family, there is no need to go on the line to discuss who brings the child, and besides, if the mother-in-law is not willing to take the grandson, even if it is to share some housework for the daughter-in-law in life, it is much better than ignoring nothing.
What is your opinion on this? Do you agree with the woman that she has a different outlook on life and doesn't want to be delayed by her grandchildren, or does she think that this kind of person is the most selfish?