"Mom, can you please stop forcing me to do this and that every day, I can manage myself now!" "What you call taking care of yourself is to stay up all day and play games, not to arrange your time reasonably, and then to be admitted to the hospital to worry us?"
Because of the long stay up late and irregular schedule, Xiaoyu suddenly fainted during the all-night game and was immediately taken to the hospital. When she saw Xiaoyu's haggard appearance, her mother left tears of sadness and regret, but she still didn't understand why Xiaoyu, who had been obedient and sensible, would become what she is now?
Before going to college, Xiaoyu was a child who studied hard and planned his spare time reasonably, and rarely quarreled with himself. But after going to college, the contradiction between Xiaoyu and himself is increasing, and every year in the spare time like winter and summer vacations, Xiaoyu always locks himself in the bedroom alone and rarely communicates with his parents.
Xiaoyu's mother was worried that Xiaoyu would face great pressure in terms of employment, so she secretly checked Xiaoyu's mobile phone when Xiaoyu was not there, and learned that Xiaoyu did not take learning as her main task in her spare time, but spent more time in games, online social networking and indulging in short videos.
Admittedly, the case of light rain families is not unique. With the acceleration of the aging social process, China's population over the age of 60 exceeds 150 million. Parents are getting older, and children are growing into independent adults. At this time, parents began to focus on their children, and at the same time increased their expectations for their children, when the children did not do what they expected to do at this age, and could not reasonably arrange their spare time, the contradictions between parents and children began to slowly intensify.
In one survey, 83 percent of children "wanted to have their own ideas and be able to make decisions about their own lives and futures"; 11.2 percent thought that "to grow up is to be independent, which is a sign of growing up"; only 3% of children thought that "you don't need to have your own ideas, because adults will help me arrange them", and this desire for independence and parents' old and conservative ideas collide with the contradiction inevitably erupts.
It is undoubtedly a good thing that children begin to pay attention to the development of their own personality, but they must not forget that while pursuing themselves, they can reasonably allocate time and achieve both academic and self-pursuit. Knowing a reasonable allocation of time is particularly important for students, and a reasonable allocation of time is not to do everything, but to use time efficiently in each time period, pay attention to skills, and efficiently do things well. For students, how to efficiently and reasonably allocate their spare time?
Be clear about your time. Column a schedule table according to the actual situation. It's not about having to fill up the whole day, you also need to leave it to yourself for fun, otherwise the schedule will be difficult to stick to. Understand the allocation of time and follow the principle of prioritization. When scheduling time, important urgent things are scheduled at the beginning, followed by some minor tasks. When you find that you are anxious because you can't complete the plan, you must cultivate patience and not rush to achieve results.