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Why are children in the past scolded and beaten, but there are few psychological problems? The answer is worth pondering for countless parents!

Why are children in the past scolded and beaten, but there are few psychological problems? The answer is worth pondering for countless parents!

Author: Lee Walnut

Source: Boy Pie (ID: shenyeshuzhuo)

Playing with children is also an important way of education.

Seeing this "walking terracotta warrior", how do you feel?

Why are children in the past scolded and beaten, but there are few psychological problems? The answer is worth pondering for countless parents!

Seeing that their children are "wild" like this, the parents of the two children do not care, and calmly say:

"Let the children play freely!" Just have fun. There are adults there, there should be no (safety) problems. ”

Why are children in the past scolded and beaten, but there are few psychological problems? The answer is worth pondering for countless parents!
Why are children in the past scolded and beaten, but there are few psychological problems? The answer is worth pondering for countless parents!
Why are children in the past scolded and beaten, but there are few psychological problems? The answer is worth pondering for countless parents!

Look at the two little guys, kicking water into the sky, sprinkling water on their partners, running happily in the puddle, sitting in the water again...

Why are children in the past scolded and beaten, but there are few psychological problems? The answer is worth pondering for countless parents!

01

Children who lack play in childhood are prone to psychological problems.

Why are children in the past scolded and beaten, but there are few psychological problems? The answer is worth pondering for countless parents!
Why are children in the past scolded and beaten, but there are few psychological problems? The answer is worth pondering for countless parents!
Why are children in the past scolded and beaten, but there are few psychological problems? The answer is worth pondering for countless parents!
Why are children in the past scolded and beaten, but there are few psychological problems? The answer is worth pondering for countless parents!
Why are children in the past scolded and beaten, but there are few psychological problems? The answer is worth pondering for countless parents!
Why are children in the past scolded and beaten, but there are few psychological problems? The answer is worth pondering for countless parents!

But think about it, when we were young, we didn't have as many homework and exams as children now, and we wouldn't be criticized and nagged by our parents every day.

Even if we are scolded, we have time to run out and play, and once we play, we leave our troubles behind.

Why are children in the past scolded and beaten, but there are few psychological problems? The answer is worth pondering for countless parents!
Why are children in the past scolded and beaten, but there are few psychological problems? The answer is worth pondering for countless parents!

02

Children who love to play in childhood will be stronger in the future.

Why are children in the past scolded and beaten, but there are few psychological problems? The answer is worth pondering for countless parents!
Why are children in the past scolded and beaten, but there are few psychological problems? The answer is worth pondering for countless parents!
Why are children in the past scolded and beaten, but there are few psychological problems? The answer is worth pondering for countless parents!

So, if your child loves to play and make trouble, as long as it is not a matter of principle, let him go!

A child who can jump, laugh, and make trouble is more worrying for parents than a child who is fragile at heart.

03

Children can have fun and live a wonderful life.

Why are children in the past scolded and beaten, but there are few psychological problems? The answer is worth pondering for countless parents!
Why are children in the past scolded and beaten, but there are few psychological problems? The answer is worth pondering for countless parents!
Why are children in the past scolded and beaten, but there are few psychological problems? The answer is worth pondering for countless parents!
Why are children in the past scolded and beaten, but there are few psychological problems? The answer is worth pondering for countless parents!
Why are children in the past scolded and beaten, but there are few psychological problems? The answer is worth pondering for countless parents!

04

Parents are the best playmates for children.

Not long ago, I watched "Super Brain" and became fascinated by "Super Bully" Wang Yuheng.

When he was a child, he often traveled and played with his parents, rarely holding books and reading books, but he could still rank in the top three positions every time he took the exam.

Later, he was admitted to the Academy of Fine Arts of Tsinghua University and became famous in "The Strongest Brain".

After his daughter was born, he passed on the habit of running and playing to his daughter.

Why are children in the past scolded and beaten, but there are few psychological problems? The answer is worth pondering for countless parents!

He will personally make a micro-landscape underwater world for his daughter, so that her daughter can understand the diversity of organisms while playing.

He would take his daughter to plant flowers in the yard and see the "flowering period" in the books.

She will also train the bird to hold coins with her daughter, so that her daughter has a more intuitive understanding of photosynthesis.

He felt that the knowledge he learned in the books was too limited, and even consulted with the teacher to let his daughter spend only half of the year in school and the other half of the time hanging out with him.

On weekends, he is "missing" all day, fully accompanying his daughter to swing, going to the aquarium to observe jellyfish, and playing with white and dolphins...

Why are children in the past scolded and beaten, but there are few psychological problems? The answer is worth pondering for countless parents!

He believes that if children can't even play, what else can they talk about learning?

As soon as he had time, he took his daughter to nature to explore the wonderful world.

Because he understands that the child's world should not only have textbooks and volumes, but also a green and vibrant life.

Why are children in the past scolded and beaten, but there are few psychological problems? The answer is worth pondering for countless parents!

Zheng Yuanjie said: "A good educator should use 50 ways of education to educate a child, not a method to educate 50 children. ”

Playing is also a kind of education. It is entertaining and educational, and learning is fun.

It is much more interesting for children to understand the world with a playful mentality than to memorize knowledge points by rote.

Let the child run and enjoy with a relaxed mind, which is much happier than sitting at the desk and worrying about himself.

Life is not only about the books in front of you, but also about the wider world beyond the books.

Playing is also a way to grow.

And the parents who play with their children are the best playmates and the most reliable school companions.

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