On the day of Gu Xin's big wedding, his ex-girlfriend who had been in a relationship for ten years and had not achieved positive results said to him: "Do you remember that year after graduating from college, many classmates drank too much, and they joked that in the future, they would find a rich man, so that they could struggle for ten years less." Then I asked you, will you? Do you remember how you answered me at the time? You said, I Gu Xin will never be sorry for Sun Qi in this life. ”
After listening to this passage, my two most intuitive feelings are that Yi Gu Xin is a complete scumbag, and Ersun Qi is a stupid woman who is obsessed with love.
Gu Xin's scum is very simple and straightforward, ten years of dating do not give his girlfriend a name, after the breakup turned around and married the director's family Qianjin.
Sun Qi's stupidity is also very simple and straightforward, the boyfriend who has been in contact for ten years immediately married Bai Fumei after breaking up, is such a man still worthy of women's pursuit?
A man who only loves with you and does not marry you is either not enough to love or not to love, and immediately after the breakup to marry a white and rich man, to put it bluntly, he only loves himself, not any woman. When encountering such a man, he should kick and not chase, but unfortunately Sun Qi just doesn't understand.
▌ Gu Xin's reality!
In "Heart Residence", Feng Xiaoqin's marriage to Gu Lei has always been regarded by Gu Qingyu as a miscalculation, and in her eyes Feng Xiaoqin is a foreign woman who wants to change her fate by marrying a Shanghai man. For such a real woman from other places, Gu Qingyu is rejected, and even more despised.
Gu Xin, a pure Shanghai man, broke up with his girlfriend Sun Qi, who had been dating for ten years, and immediately married Qianjin of the bureau chief's family, why?
The reason is obvious, he wants to rely on women to get to power, he wants to rely on women to fight for ten years less. Gu Xin marrying Ge Yue is more of a mischievous calculation in my opinion, and he also wants to change his fate by marrying Bai Fumei, a real man in Shanghai.
Compared with Feng Xiaoqin, Gu Xin was more greedy and realistic. Although Feng Xiaoqin is realistic, she is not greedy for marital love, she has love for Gu Lei, she has feelings for the Gu family, and she really wants to live a good life with Gu Lei.
But Gu Xin is not, he and Ge Yue married for his own future, not for love, he did not want to fall in love with Ge Yue and Ge Yue to live a good life, because he did not lack love, he had already experienced the taste of love and hatred in his ten-year relationship with Sun Qi.
What he lacks most now is not love, but a future, a future that can shine on his own shining lintel. Therefore, he decisively and realistically chose to marry Ge Yue's gaopan and let go of his most unincorporated love, whether it was Sun Qi's love or Ge Yue's love, he didn't want it, he only wanted the future he lacked the most at the moment.
He listened to his ex-girlfriend on the big wedding day at the appointment of his ex-girlfriend, which was not a warmth, but a false intention of wanting everything. His joy of the new is not tired of the old is his greatest reality.
For such a realistic Shanghai man who only loves himself, I don't know what Shanghai woman Gu Qingyu will think, she will feel who is more realistic, who is more greedy, who is more terrible?
Seeing a man like Gu Xin, I just want to say that the reality of rational men is more terrible than the reality of emotional women, because rationality makes men more desperate and more vicious in the emotional world of sensibility.
He can play any role that can please women without changing his face, so that women can always live in the dream love life he has woven.
Therefore, don't be confused by Gu Xin's fake gentle township, and be a sober and transparent woman.
▌ The reality of human nature!
Gu Xin's parents' attitude towards their son's two girlfriends is extremely clear and realistic. Before knowing Ge Yue's family background, they were happy to accept their son's beautiful girlfriend Sun Qi for ten years. But after learning of Ge Yue's family background, the old couple was silent, and also acquiesced to their son's girlfriend Ge Yue, who was eager to get married after a short contact.
Not only did he participate in the dinner of the two parents by appointment, but he also promised to pay 7 million yuan to buy a marriage house, and his son lived in the mother's house before the marriage room could live.
Human nature is profit-seeking, so in the face of practical interests, Gu Xin is realistic, and his parents are even more realistic.
Even if you know that the gap between the two families is huge, even if you know that the two doors are not right, even if you know that there will be a huge gap in the lives of the two families... They still choose to pursue profits, they still choose to take shortcuts and make the Great Leap Forward, rather than choosing to take the road to move forward steadily.
Gu Qingyu has always been suspicious of her sister-in-law's marriage to her brother, and she feels that her sister-in-law is a calculating and realistic foreign woman, and has always been wary of Feng Xiaoqin.
In the marriage relationship between Gu Lei and Feng Xiaoqin, Gu Qingyu is not a good role. She has always instilled in her family and brother the idea of being wary of her sister-in-law, rather than how to make her brother's life better and make the whole family live more harmoniously and smoothly.
She was extremely realistic about her sister-in-law Feng Xiaoqin, whether it was before or after Gu Lei's death.
Before Gu Lei's death, mingming's brother and sister-in-law had quarreled and reconciled, but she persuaded her brother to divorce, because she felt that her brother would never be a rival to her sister-in-law and would always be suppressed and controlled by her sister-in-law.
After Gu Lei's death, Feng Xiaoqin told her neighbors that Gu Qingyu felt that she was asking for money. She told her father to make plans in advance for her daughter-in-law, Feng Xiaoqin, just in case.
In Gu Qingyu's eyes, Feng Xiaoqin does not have a little warmth and desirableness, Feng Xiaoqin's care for the gu family's elderly children is hypocritical, and gu Lei's love for Gu Lei is hypocritical, Gu Qingyu's biggest reality for Feng Xiaoqin is to cut feng Xiaoqin as soon as possible.
Once people deny people and things that they do not recognize, it means that reality arises, and Gu Qingyu's reality to Feng Xiaoqin is the best proof. I understand Gu Qingyu's mentality of guarding against Feng Xiaoqin, but I can't understand her absolute and reality of not leaving a little warmth for Feng Xiaoqin.
For the reality of Feng Xiaoqin and Gu Xin, Gu Qingyu obviously treated them differently. For Feng Xiaoqin, Gu Qingyu's choice is absolute and realistic, and Gu Xin's choice for Gu Qingyu is to turn a blind eye and be gentle, how can this not be a decisive reality!
For the reality of human nature, people should know and understand, and they should recognize and face it directly, because only by facing it directly can they accept it, and only by accepting it will they live more and more wisely, and the more they live, the more transparent they will be.
It is undeniable that human nature has a realistic side, but people who are too realistic often live a bad life, because human nature is not only a realistic side, but also a warm and loving side. Without the warmth and love, people have no source of happiness.
Happiness is a feeling, it never comes from reality, nor from the temporary pleasure brought by matter, it only stems from the warmth and warmth given to people by the family supported by love.
Gu Xin chose the ultimate reality and chose a home without love to support, and what greeted him was bound to be cold and miserable. It is a pity that Ge Yue and Sun Qi have not yet seen Gu Xin's reality, selfishness and desperation, and they are still living in false unworthy love.
In "Heart Residence", Feng Xiaoqin is a better woman who holds reality and emotion, although realistic, she has feelings and love, and although she has a scheming heart, she keeps her promise. She knows life and marriage emotions better than Gu Qingyu, who lives in a love fairy tale.
Gu Xin and Feng Xiaoqin told us that people can be realistic, but they cannot be ruthless and loveless. Happiness is the result of the combination of reality and emotion in a certain proportion, and it is difficult to have happiness at all.
Don't lose love because of reality, and don't lose your warmth because of love, and don't blur your mind because of love, and your eyes can't see reality clearly. Seeing the reality clearly, knowing the world without being sophisticated, and living with affection and love is the source of harvesting happiness!