Men don't love, most of them won't say it explicitly, but the details can't be hidden
The man wants to leave, and the details cannot be hidden.
If he loves, he will give it his all.
If one day, the man decides not to love, he will think about how to get out of this relationship.
Women don't think that the other party doesn't care about you anymore, and will decisively propose to break up; sometimes, even if they are not willing to continue to interact, they will not say it directly, and they hope that you can take the initiative to bring it up, so that the other party can agree to it in the water.
I have to admit that even at the moment of deciding to break up, men still care about face.
Therefore, if you want to understand the real psychology of the other party in a relationship, to see if the other party still loves you, you don't need to say it straight to the point; you only need to observe the words and deeds of the other party, most of you can understand.
Wang Yangming was a master of psychology in the Ming Dynasty, and the two major psychological systems he founded, "Unity of Knowledge and Action" and "To Conscience", were sought after by many literati and inkers, and even became famous overseas and influenced countless people.
In his psychology, it is mentioned that men do not love, most of them will not say it explicitly, but the details cannot be hidden.
First: When I love you, I will haunt you, and if I want to leave, I will become indifferent.
It is not difficult to imagine what a person would be like if he loved you.
He will most likely seize the opportunity, hope to communicate with you more, even if he is with you, doing nothing, for that person, it is a great pleasure; because he loves you, he will try to entangle you.
However, when a person's heart goes far, it will become another person; no longer pay attention to you, nor will they take the initiative to send a smile or enthusiasm, but put on a cold face, always feeling that you owe him something.
Second: Before I took the initiative to care, now I always feel that you have a lot of things.
If he loves you, he will care about everything about you and will take care of you.
Don't look at the man's big grin, if it is really good to a person, they will become very delicate, but also know where the needs of girls are, and will try to win the favor of the other party by throwing in their favor.
If one day he stops caring about you or wants to leave, you will realize that whatever you do is a problem in his eyes.
Third: If the disconnection is frequent, his heart has gone far.
Love someone and want to be by her side every day.
When men pursue girls, they work tirelessly, even if they travel through thousands of mountains and rivers, they have the momentum of not giving up until they reach their goals; they will seize every opportunity to keep in touch with each other.
When men decide not to love and hope to get out of this relationship, they will have the opposite action, and even disconnection has become a frequent occurrence.
When loving you, men are afraid that you don't know the general and go all out to pursue.
At this stage, they are eager to announce to the world how much they care about you, and they want everyone in the world to know that you are a couple.
However, when love ushers in a flat period and men decide not to love, they will become a taciturn person; many words are hidden in the heart, even if they want to break up with you, they are not willing to take the initiative to say it.
So there is such a situation, men do not love, most of them will not say it explicitly, but the details can not be hidden.
Of course, the above is just my superficial understanding of Wang Yangming's mind!
Learn from Wang Yangming, and life will be able to take a detour less
Japanese Admiral Heihachiro Togo once taught his life at a ceremony.
He took out his waist plate and showed it to everyone, and there were only 7 big words on it: A lifetime of bowing to Yang Ming.
The reason why Wang Yangming can be called a saint is because his psychology has influenced the world!
As soon as his ideas came out, they formed a huge response.
I like to read Wang Yangming the most, because he can teach me to cultivate the mind, let me find a way out when I am confused, can let me learn a lot of wisdom in life, and will not get anything for most of my life!
Wang Yangming's psychology is far more than this, since his thoughts were born, he has influenced thousands of generations of literati and inkers, including Zhang Juzheng, Zeng Guofan, Kang Youwei and others, who are his "disciples", who have perfected and carried forward Wang Yangming's psychology.
The Records of Transmission and Practice is an important work of Wang Yangming, an immortal sage of "Lide, Meritorious Service, and Speech", which is extremely rare in Chinese history, contains the main philosophical ideas of Wang Yangming, and is an important material for the study of Wang Yangming's thought and the development of psychology.
The "Unity of Knowledge and Action" is the core of Wang Yangming's mental science, recording many stories, from official stories, or folk interesting but thought-provoking stories, we learn the wisdom of living in the world.
When the heart is impetuous, when encountering difficulties, no matter when, reading Wang Yangming, it is natural to be able to go to a higher level!
Wang Yangming has a poem: "Everyone has their own fixed needle, and the root of wanhua is always in the heart." But he laughed before and saw it upside down, and the branches and leaves looked out. "The modern man who is on the run in Vanity Fair and floats with the world is the time to find his own setter. In these two books, you can see Wang Yangming, who cut through thorns in the official arena, and you can also see Wang Yangming, who is brave and resourceful in the battlefield, and you can learn the most brilliant wisdom in his life!
I bought two sets, one set to read when I am idle, purify the soul, one set as a gift to a friend, for people who like history and culture, Wang Yangming is a must-read!
Wang Yangming's ideas have captivated Countless Chinese and foreign celebrities such as Zhang Juzheng, Zeng Guofan, Liang Qichao, Zhang Taiyan, and Xixiang Takamori, Inamori Kazuo, and so on. Harvard University professor Tu Weiming said: "The 21st century will be Wang Yangming's century!" ”
Reading Wang Yangming earlier in life will take a detour less!
Give you a different feeling. And it can also be passed on from generation to generation, collected or sent to friends, which is very valuable!