Introduction: Although men and women are now equal, after starting a family, you will find that many people's positioning of women has not changed, for example, the daughter who marries out has become a relative, and the in-laws will also treat the daughter-in-law as if they were married by someone else's family, so the women who marry will become outsiders to a large extent.
Some women will find that their room has long changed owners after marriage, not only that, but they may not be married, and when they return home from college, they find that the room is piled up into a utility room. When women get married, they are both guests of the family and daughters of their parents, so their situation may be dilemma. For example, on the issue of parental support, when important matters are discussed at home.
Some girls will take their husbands home for the New Year after marriage, but they find that their decision is very wrong, for the family of marrying out daughters, some people will take the length of the daughter's homecoming as a burden, and even bluntly say that after marrying out, do not often run to the mother's house.
Let's take a look at Miss Liu's story! Nearly homeless in 30 years
At the beginning of this year, Miss Liu, who had just gotten married, chose to take her husband back to her mother's house for the New Year at the New Year, but did not greet her parents in advance in order to surprise the family. When the two children returned to Miss Liu's mother's house with large bags of gifts, their parents expressed great surprise and did not show a very happy expression.
Parents are very anxious to ask the little two to come back here for the New Year to say hello to the mother-in-law and father-in-law? Miss Liu, the little two said to the old two rest assured, they have already explained it, in order to give you a surprise to the old two. After Miss Liu's two children entered the house, their parents very politely let them sit in the living room, wait for a while to eat, and make them tea.
Miss Liu suddenly felt hot, but also let the parents sit down first do not busy work, and then let the husband carry the luggage back to their room, as soon as they opened the door to find that their previous one meter eight large bed has long been replaced by a bunk bed double bed, Miss Liu's parents embarrassed to say that this is for the two little nephews to prepare, now married out, the room is empty is also a pity.
The son-in-law said very intimately that it did not matter, two people can sleep in a bed of this size, so Miss Liu put everything in her room, and her parents also helped her make a bed. Miss Liu turned her head and asked her parents, has her brother and sister-in-law not arrived home yet? You should know that now they are 29 years old, parents said that they will arrive soon, so the two old people will stand in the yard and look forward, what they did not expect is that it is the daughter who is waiting for the two smaller, not the son and the daughter-in-law.
After a while, I heard the sound of the car, and sure enough, Miss Liu's brother and sister-in-law returned, and there were two small children in kindergarten, which were two little nephews, and the two little nephews were very happy to see their grandparents, and they also greeted their aunts, and they hurried to the second floor.
The two children immediately ran down and said, didn't they say they would have a room? Why do you still have your aunt's luggage in your room? The aunt got married, why do they still have their things? This remark made Miss Liu's two little mouths very embarrassed, Miss Liu's husband also said that the two can book a room from outside, the child's childish words, all at once poked Miss Liu's sore spot.
Miss Liu almost thought that she was going to book a room with her husband at the hotel on the evening of the 30th of the year, but fortunately, she was the same person who came over, and her brother immediately reprimanded the children, and blamed the parents, why did she vacate Miss Liu's room? The two of them said that after eating, they would go to the mall to buy a large bed for Miss Liu to have two small bites. For the kindness of her brother and sister-in-law, Miss Liu is very warm-hearted.
After dinner, Miss Liu watched her mother clean up the dishes and chopsticks there, and then went up to help, and secretly stuffed twenty or thirty thousand to her mother, what she did not expect was that her mother said to Miss Liu in a serious tone, if you marry someone, you will stay at your in-laws' house with peace of mind, and when you come back to your mother's house, you will let people gossip.
Sure enough, on the fourth day of the New Year, a lot of relatives came to visit the New Year, and they were very surprised to see Miss Liu, thinking that she had just married at the beginning of the year, and she was divorced at the end of the year, and when she saw Miss Liu's husband, she knew that the little two of them returned to their mother's house for the New Year. Netizens are very understanding of Miss Liu's situation, saying that the situation they encountered is more embarrassing, and they do not want to go back to their mother's house.
Netizens pointedly said that the daughter who married for a long time is also the blood of her parents
Girls must remember that no matter how long they have been married, how far they have been married, and they are still the daughters of their parents, they cannot be guests, so they do not have to be polite to some relatives who gossip with traditional bad ideas.