Author: Five layers
What makes me most incredible in this world may be the elders who cling to boys. Because, according to my observation, whether it is a son or a grandson, there are really few people who are reliable and manage things, and there are girls who come to incense.
At lunchtime, colleague Su Su shared a story that made her feel both sad and ridiculous. After listening to it, I learned that there were really people who could not put down their grandchildren in their lifetime.
All along, Su Su and her mother have been the least valued beings in the family. From a very young age, Susu did not get a good face from her grandparents.
Every time they saw Su Su's mother, they would never leave a boy. But in those days, both husband and wife had formal jobs, who were willing to give up a lifetime of iron rice bowls in order to have another child.
Therefore, after letting their Su family go extinct, they became grandparents who chanted for decades.
The most ridiculous thing is that until last week, Susu heard her 80-year-old grandmother complain to her mother there, and the biggest regret in my life is that I don't have grandchildren.
And her mother is also kind, or used to it, smiling and replying to her mother-in-law, otherwise, I will divorce your son now, it is estimated that it is still too late. Let him find another one, and if it is soon, at the end of next year, you may report to your grandson.
Grandma heard the moment, the face that called a wonderful, of course, she wanted to be like when she was young, immediately replied, you already have this realization, why have you been relying on my son to hold on! But at her current age, she still has to rely on her son and daughter-in-law, how dare she make a big fuss. But clear-eyed people know that she has not given up at all, and wants to hold a grandchild in her lifetime.
Su Su, who was on the side, couldn't stand it, she asked Grandma loudly, if my dad had another son, you could raise it! Now young girls, but do not want to take children, as a mother-in-law, how can you not help! Grandma, think of your poor, so old, but also responsible for doing housework, changing diapers.
Grandma heard the words, her face changed, and she was not happy to go back to the room. But after that, I still go my own way, and I always like to mention my grandson.
Su Su really couldn't understand what kind of brain circuit Grandma was. She is 28 years old, about to have children, and even thinks of holding her grandchildren. Doesn't she think about reality?
Surely Mom can't give birth, just her dad, how many years to retire? An ordinary worker, now go to find a partner, is there a woman of childbearing age willing?
Since Grandma knew in her heart that this was an impossible thing to accomplish. Say it every day, what is the meaning? Except for plugging others and digging holes for yourself, there is no benefit at all! She's 80 years old, what else do you want to do? Happy to spend the rest of your days, isn't that good? Can your child, when he mentions her, be speechless?
Yikes! In fact, people of that era had this kind of obsession, which can also be understood. But like Grandma Susu, endless, it is rare.
Basically, at this age, who still cares about whether there are grandchildren, even if the children are not married, it is estimated that they have been relieved. It's completely unnecessary to think like this.
However, sometimes people are born of inferiority, and the more they do not have things, the more they want them. Maybe she really has a grandchild, and she will complain and run out of her money!
Therefore, being a person sometimes still wants to open something good! In some things that human beings cannot control, being preoccupied will only hurt yourself and hurt yourself.
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