With the liberalization of the fertility policy, people of different ages have completely different attitudes towards childbearing, and if you look closely, you will find that the post-90s and post-00s group is not very interested in having children.
As an only child, the post-80s generally believe that only one child can be born, after all, the survival pressure is too great today, and the second child will greatly reduce the quality of life.
Counting further up, the post-70s whose life has been stable and the economic foundation is still good are very positive about having a second child, and many people are still insisting on adding another child despite the fact that Dabao has reached the age of marriage and marriage, and the age difference between the two children will be very large.
From the child's point of view, how embarrassing is the age difference between the second child and the child? Not long ago, a woman posted a video of herself picking up her sister from school on the Internet, and complained that such a picture often makes her single self be mistaken for a mother.
Picking up my sister from school was treated as a mother, and my 28-year-old sister was very aggrieved: no one came to talk to me
The woman in the picture confessed that she was 28 years old, but a few years ago her parents gave birth to a little sister, so the age difference between the sisters has reached 20 years old.
When the mother did not have time to go to the kindergarten to pick up the second treasure, she would let the sister pick up the sister, but every time the sisters walked together, they looked like mother and daughter, and strangers thought she was the mother of the child.
In fact, the 28-year-old is still single, and her sister said that since her parents gave birth to her little sister, she not only has to pick her up from school, but also often plays with her sister.
In this way, the opposite sex around her will think that she has already married and have children, and she does not dare to take the initiative to come and talk.
Although it is a ridiculous tone, it is not difficult to see that if the age difference between two children in a family is too large, then it will indeed cause some misunderstandings when going out.
The same embarrassment happened to the siblings below.
The young and beautiful girl in the picture is a 22-year-old college student, although the daughter has gone to college, but the parents still fought for the second child at an advanced age, giving birth to a cute little brother for the girl.
Girls are also very fond of their brothers, often taking him shopping and walking, but because of the age difference, the sisters and brothers will always be treated as mother and son when they go out, which is undoubtedly a great embarrassment for the sister who is still in school.
In this regard, my sister also thought of a good way to eliminate misunderstandings, that is
A special T-shirt with the words "I am a sister" printed on the body was customized, and whenever the sisters and brothers went out, the sister would wear this dress.
Since then, when everyone sees the content of her sister's clothes, she will naturally understand the relationship between the two.
The sister's wit also amused many netizens, many people said that this is the most cute combination of sister and brother, and some netizens frankly said that parents giving birth to a second child must take into account the age difference between the two children, otherwise there is not only a generation gap between the two children, but also easy to cause embarrassment to the boss.
"I have a pair of sisters around me who are 20 years apart, and my parents are the second eldest born at the age of 46, because the age difference is too much, the sisters have a very general relationship."
"It's okay for parents to want to have a second child, but the interval shouldn't be too long, and it's best if two children are three years apart."
"My sister is so witty that she doesn't have to bother explaining to others when she wears this kind of dress."
In a two-child family, what is the most appropriate age difference between two children?
The purpose of many parents to have a second child is to give their children a companion, hoping that the feelings between brothers and sisters are very close, accompanied by each other when they are young, and help each other when they grow up.
To achieve this, the age difference between the two children is important.
If the age difference between the two children is too large, there will be a generation gap between them because of completely different ideas and interests, in addition, for Dabao, many people will take care of their younger siblings as a kind of pressure in life.
So is the closer the age between two children the better? From a child's point of view, being similar in age is a good thing, and they can be synchronized with each other in many things.
But for Bao Mom, if the body has not fully recovered, it will go to pregnancy and childbirth, which is not only a torture for the body, but also many people will feel that they lack energy.
Therefore, in a two-child family, the age difference between the two children is more appropriate 3 to 5 years old.
At this time, Dabao has gone to kindergarten, and the mother's time will be relatively relaxed, and many Dabao will also take the initiative to help the mother take care of her younger siblings and take them to play, and the feelings between brothers and sisters will also be sublimated in play.