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Loving someone is easy to think wildly, easy to suffer from gains and losses.
Maybe before he met you, he was a fearless person; until he fell in love with you later, he had more consideration for everything.
As Zhang Ailing said:
"When you love someone, you are always a little afraid, afraid of getting her, afraid of losing her."
Feelings are sometimes like this, love a person to the extreme, will become cautious, very easy to be afraid.
Afraid of arguing with you, it will hurt feelings; afraid of only saying and not doing, will make you disappointed; afraid of losing you, will be particularly easy to be jealous;
Because he cares too much about you, when he talks and does things, he will consider your feelings in all aspects and want you to get a unique preference.
In fact, such a man who is afraid of you loves you more than he thinks.
01 Afraid of arguing with you, it will hurt feelings
I heard a very gentle sentence:
"I'm not going to let you spend the night with emotions, your so-called fine, is slowly moving away from me, I don't want you to do this." 」
Indeed, the man who really loves you will not let you spend the night with emotions, he will be very afraid to quarrel with you, let you down with him, and hurt each other's feelings.
So, every time he argues with you, he will surely coax you and take you in his arms to comfort you until you are not angry.
In fact, men who are soft on you are not nests. Everything makes you care about your feelings because he really loves you.
Being in love is not a game, you are more important than winning or losing.
Feelings are sometimes like this, love to the extreme is caution, love to the depths is fear. It's prudent to do something wrong yourself that makes you angry; what you're afraid of is losing your feelings and regretting it for the rest of your life.
02 I am afraid that I will disappoint you by just saying nothing and not doing anything
I have seen such a sentence in the NetEase cloud hot review:
"The person who loves you does not mention love at all, but does everything that he loves you; the person who does not love you says everything he loves you does, but does things that hurt you." 」
When you think about it, it is.
Men who pretend to love you, beautiful words are never less, but they are rarely carried out. They will only draw flatbread, write empty checks, and finally blame you for reality.
However, true love is never a big pie, but a down-to-earth commitment to fulfill and practical action.
Because he is afraid of disappointing you, he will not always tell you rhetoric and things that cannot be done, and he never dares to promise easily, but will use practical actions to make you feel the most sincere love.
Loving someone is like that, and actual action is always more sincere than any mantra promise.
03 Afraid of losing you, it will be particularly easy to be jealous
There is a question on Zhihu: "How do you make sure you are in love with someone else?" ”
Among them, there is a highly praised comment that replied: "Seeing that she is too close to the other sex, I will be jealous." ”
Indeed, men who really love you will be jealous and feel very uncomfortable when they see you with other members of the opposite sex.
Because I am afraid of losing you, I suffer from gain and loss, because I care too much about you, so I can't help but be jealous.
In fact, he frequently eats jealousy, not because he does not trust you, but because he loves you too much, so he is difficult to control himself and can't help but be jealous.
Jealousy is a symbol of love, the man who really loves you will often be jealous, if you also meet such a partner, I hope you don't dislike him, because in his eyes, you are all.
Men who really love you are timid.
Afraid that you are angry, so as soon as you quarrel, you will admit defeat; afraid that you will be disappointed, so everything is based on you and pay for you; afraid of losing you, so I can't help but be jealous and want to keep you.
But it is precisely because of this fear that your feelings are getting warmer and warmer.
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