What should parents do when they are young and young? Can't miss this most comprehensive guide!

What should the young articulation be connected to? In fact, compared with the learning of knowledge, children's learning motivation and learning habits are what we should pay more attention to during this time.

#01心理准备

Stimulate children's desire to learn and enhance their interest in learning

Wishes and interests are the premise and key to doing a good job, and parents need to let their children know that they are about to become a primary school student, and feel proud, proud, confident and self-motivated from the heart. Looking forward to the day when I go to school and put on the red scarf, I have an internal drive. Parents can do this:

01

Boot with language

Tell your child in a relaxed tone that they are about to enter elementary school learning and life.

02

Inspire by example

Please ask other children who are in elementary school around you to tell their children about the pleasant experience of going to elementary school.

03

Replace intimidation with encouragement

Don't scare your children with words like "you have to suffer when you go to school", but to say some words of appreciation and encouragement, such as: "You have really grown up" and "You are more and more like a primary school student", which will make children feel that it is very honorable and proud to go to primary school.

04

When a problem occurs

Face it with your child and give positive cues such as: "Baby has perseverance", "You're doing well, but if... Can be better", to help children smoothly through this growth process.

#02能力准备

Cultivate children's learning quality, that is, learning ability

Observation

Observation is actually learning, observing nature, people and things. But observation is not the same as aimlessly looking around and looking at the flowers, but falling into the subtleties of things, discovering the differences, phenomena, changes between things and observing with problems.

Such as: observe the location of the toilet, the parent stop line, the location of the teacher's office, the signs around the street, etc.

Focus

This is very important, a lesson in primary school is longer than kindergarten, and children need to have a certain ability to concentrate.

I'd rather my child focus for 10 minutes than half-heartedly for an hour. Parents should first do things to concentrate on insisting on doing one thing together with their children, creating a quiet environment to avoid the interference of novelties.

memory

The basis of intellectual ability, first grade writing 100 words, recognizing 400 words, pinyin, text recitation all rely on memory. Memory is divided into mechanical memory (rote memorization) and meaning memory (memory after understanding), and children should be guided to associate memory, understand memory, and rely on methods to remember.

#03习惯准备

Good study habits

Independence is very important, and students will encounter many obstacles and difficulties to face and solve alone.

Common phenomena:

Parents take care of school bags

Pack your school bag

Parents three accompaniment (accompany reading and writing accompanying to do)

Parents do not do homework without accompanying their children

Forget to bring books, red scarves, etc

Feeding help with getting dressed etc

Causes:

Parents are not at ease and do not let go

Love in disguise becomes coddling

There are too many packages instead

Don't give your child a chance to exercise

The root cause is disrespect for children

Didn't see children as real people

The final result is not only that children are not independent in life, but that they are not independent in spirit and mind, strongly dependent, and will not choose and deal with anything.

Develop the ability to endure setbacks

How can you see the rainbow without experiencing wind and rain, endure setbacks can make people strong, improve psychological endurance and perseverance.

Strengthens willpower

Persistence, self-control, rule awareness, self-discipline. One thing must be done, self-control, not halfway through. Following the rules, self-centeredness is not the same as self-centeredness but to follow discipline, the rules of class, and knowing what to do and what not to do.

Ensure your child's mental health

Cultivate a good attitude in children, praise loudly, criticize alone, and protect children's self-esteem.

Attached: Kindergarten Parent Self-Examination Form

Ensure that your child is healthy

Diet, sleep, exercise, environment, mood

Strictly enforce work and rest times

Prepare an alarm clock and let your child use it for themselves

Implement a "time-limited system" for life links

Let your child do what they can

Go to the supermarket to buy things, buy breakfast, wash socks etc

Supervise the toddler to complete the "homework" and sign it

Take it seriously and stick to it

Insist on keeping an oral diary for young children

Create an environment to increase young children's opportunities for social interaction

Take more children to social events and travel

Familiar with the traffic routes, familiar with the primary school

Visit the elementary school and socialize with elementary school students

Talk to your child every day and listen to your child's voice

Don't just care about what your child learns

And care about what the child is thinking in his heart

Find out the same merits as the child once a day and praise the child

Spend every day with your child to concentrate on one thing and develop concentration

(Pat balls, beads, puzzles, pick beans)

Communicate more with teachers

Keep up to date with your child's situation

Guide your child to recognize words in life

Ask your child more questions and increase your interest in recognizing words

Read poems aloud with your child

Practice pronunciation, biting words, breath, emotion, fluency

Material preparation (safe, convenient, practical)

School bag, alarm clock, pencil eraser ruler, homework book

As children move from kindergarten to primary school, both parents and children need to adapt as soon as possible. Primary school means a new chapter in a child's life, the child needs to work hard, and parents cannot relax.

After the child goes to primary school, parents should pay more, parents should do a good job in the connection of young children, guide the behavior of children after entering primary school, let children adjust the work and rest time as soon as possible, and urge children to complete time management.

Primary school teachers are more to guide children how to learn, it is difficult to take care of children's living life like kindergarten teachers, so parents will work harder and need more energy to take care of their children.

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