Wen | condensed mother's understanding
The group informed that it began to collect information about the children's primary school, and it was calculated that there were another 4 months, and another batch of new students was promoted to the first grade. In these months, should the children prepare for it? The experience of people who come over must be prepared.
Many parents may be very reluctant to connect young children, thinking that it is to increase the burden on their children, and now that they have learned, what is it that they learn from school? It shows that the misunderstanding of the early childhood articulation is very deep, and the early childhood articulation is not a cultural class cram class, nor is it just a cultural lesson, and parents can do it at home.
If you are still doubting the importance of young articulation, then you can look at the following real case. Parents and Buddhas tie the baby, do not pay attention to the connection between young and small, as a result, after the child goes to the first grade, the parents and children are both hard.
A parent asked for help after the child went to school for 3 months: the child could not keep up with the first grade, the teacher complained all day, let the tutoring homework, every night with a beating to write until 11 o'clock, almost collapsed, what to do?
Children do not study well, do not take the initiative to write homework at home, all rely on parental teaching, teachers all day long to let me help children review, cultivate habits.
The more the child is urged, the more procrastination, the more dependent on the parents, no teaching or supervision, when writing homework, they have been playing. Every night when I wrote until 11 o'clock, I was sleep-deprived in the first grade, I didn't have time to review my homework, and the teacher didn't have time to read.
The homework was written in a mess and was not qualified, so it was returned and rewritten. Language is getting harder and harder, and 90% of the words on a test paper have not been learned.
I am often pressured by the teacher, which causes me to become more and more anxious, my temper is getting more and more grumpy, and I am angry when I see my child writing homework, and I don't want to take care of it anymore. It has seriously affected my life, and now I can't do anything at night, and I still have migraines, and I just stare at my children writing homework from Monday to Sunday. I don't know how to solve it, but my body and mind are about to reach a critical point.
Are first-graders like this? No, this parent reflects that other children can learn as soon as they learn, and the words are also well written, because people have been young and young, and they have also practiced writing.
A few decades ago, when we were in elementary school, everyone had the same starting point and zero standard. Parents also let their children fend for themselves and will not be anxious about their children's learning.
Now it's different, children have been winning at the starting line since birth, and in the first grade, the foundation of each child is different and uneven. The teaching progress can only take care of the majority, if the child's foundation is really poor, can not keep up, can only be in the back of the desperate pursuit.
The child goes to the first grade, and then complains and regrets, and it is too late. If you want your child to relax after school, don't relax before your child goes to school.
In fact, it is not a troublesome thing to carry out the young articulation, the child will not be tired, every day a little, accumulated day by day, the day the child goes to school, the ability is naturally achieved.
As a person who has come over, I have summarized the following 3 key points for everyone, and we must do it before the children go to school.
(1) Basic study habits
Mr. Ye Shengtao said: "Good habits are formed, and they are used for a lifetime; bad habits are formed, and they suffer their losses for a lifetime, and it is not easy to change them." ”
Compared with other aspects, habits are the first, and if you want to learn well, the emphasis is on developing good study habits.
Ask the child to sit still. A lesson of 45 minutes, the child should be able to sit well, not casually get off the seat. This is a basic situation of concentration, if the child only has three minutes of heat when doing things, it must be corrected in time.
You can set a time for your child to train their ability to sit still by reading, playing games, playing with toys, etc.
Listen carefully to the lessons. When the teacher is in class, while talking and writing on the blackboard, the child should be able to listen to the teacher with his ears, look at the content on the blackboard with his eyes, and record the key points with his hands, while thinking about understanding and understanding the new knowledge learned.
This process to mobilize the five senses to work together, if a wandering mind, the teacher said nothing to hear, the back can not be picked up, it will all be a pot of porridge. Therefore, we must be able to do multi-purpose and seriously keep up with the rhythm of the teacher.
It's not difficult at all, accompany your child to find some free small lessons online and simulate the process of listening to the lessons. Talk to your child and let them practice their ability to listen carefully. When children recognize the importance of listening carefully, classes are much easier.
Learn on a schedule. After entering elementary school, the study life became very regular. Classes during the day and homework at night. There is not much homework, but children should realize that this is a necessary part of learning, something they must do, and they cannot spend emotions and time on it.
Planned learning should be done earlier, and now many 3-year-olds have learned as planned, they can do it, and 6-year-olds are more capable of doing it.
The way to do this is to make a plan with your child, and the fixed time period of each night is learning time, and when the child reaches that point, like a conditioned reflex, he immediately sits in a chair and starts learning. Children develop such a habit, and it feels like a matter of course to write homework again.
(2) Adhere to the habit of reading
Reading is the ladder of human progress, and the importance of reading has been raised for many years, but many parents still ignore it. Some parents believe that reading can only be carried out after the child goes to primary school and is taught by the teacher. This is not the case, and parents have the ability to cultivate their children's reading habits.
The 2022 new version of the Language Curriculum Standard puts forward new requirements for reading, attaches importance to the reading of the whole book, interdisciplinary learning, and improves the depth and breadth of reading.
This gives us a hint that if the child has a good reading foundation before school, reading speed and comprehension ability are online in advance, it will be very easy to adapt to reading teaching. If you do not pay attention to the cultivation of reading habits before school, and directly let your children read after school, your children will have a fear of difficulties.
Other children have been able to dabble in a wide range of books, the ability has reached a new height, the children with poor foundation have just learned how to read, which can catch up with the progress, the gap can only be widened. Because this is not a tortoise and rabbit race, children who read a lot can only read more, will not stand still, and wait there for you to chase.
Therefore, it is necessary to cultivate children's reading habits earlier. The method is also very simple, prepare some picture books that meet his interests, read to him for half an hour before going to bed every day, he is attracted by the stories in the book, and he can find the joy of reading.
Slowly, from parents to read, the transition to parents read half, children read half, children read to parents, reading interest is established, reading habits can also be formed.
(3) Lay a good foundation for study
Parents are particularly concerned about whether to study culture classes before school, and it can be said with certainty that it is necessary. It is not to say that it is necessary to learn the primary school textbook in advance, but to do some preparatory work to help the child easily understand the teacher's teaching content, so as not to understand, understand, write homework, and be blind in the exam.
Word recognition and pinyin
Whether it is language learning or mathematical learning, it is inseparable from words, learning new knowledge, writing homework, exams, only by understanding the words, can we proceed to the next step.
How many words are enough to know before school? The principal of a school in Zhejiang said that to reach more than 700 words, this number is not large. Now many three- and four-year-old children have more than 2,000 literacy levels, and 700 words is not difficult.
Because word recognition is not a very complicated thing, when you are at home or when you go out, you know what word you see, and when you read, you refer to reading text. In different scenarios, each text can be repeated many times, once born twice, and remembered when you see more.
As for Pinyin, most schools are progressing fast, and children may not be able to keep up, so they need to be familiar with it in advance. With a pinyin book, it is enough to recognize all the pinyin, read it once, and write one article.
Mathematical cognition and thinking
When we think of learning mathematics, we think of knowing natural numbers and learning addition and subtraction within 10 or 20, but this is just the tip of the iceberg.
The 2022 edition of the new curriculum emphasizes the core literacy of mathematics: will observe the real world with mathematical eyes; will think about the real world with mathematical thinking; and will use mathematical language to express the real world.
To learn mathematics well, we must combine with life, we must pay attention to thinking training, we must improve humanistic literacy, the requirements are very high, we must change our thinking to let children learn mathematics.
For example, with the help of picture books, understand the basic concepts of graphics, size, number, height, thickness, spatial orientation, etc., and apply them in real life to discover the magic of mathematics. Read some math stories, recognize the fun of math, and slowly improve your math literacy.
English initiation
The ability to learn language declines with age, and I don't want my child to worry about Learning English in the future, so I need to do English enlightenment early.
I am a parent who has tasted the sweetness in this regard, my son began to start English from the age of 5 and a half, learning English is very easy, and he can learn more in English at the primary school level.
Now too many parents recognize the importance of English enlightenment, the starting age is getting younger and younger, and the children will soon go to primary school, and they should pay more attention to it.
English initiation is also not complicated, even if the parents have bad English can do it. It is recommended to use English animation, English nursery rhymes, English picture book enlightenment, children like, the effect is good, but also in line with the requirements of English core literacy, as long as you insist on doing it, the child must develop well.
epilogue
To sum up, before going to primary school, learning habits, reading habits, learning foundation, these 3 aspects are done well, after going to school, you can easily keep up with the learning progress, parents and children are relaxed. Due to space limitations, there are no recommended books and other resources, and we can talk about it next time if needed.
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Mother of two boys, more than 10 years of parenting experience
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