When a child loses his temper, usually the mother will say, who do you see with this child? Subconsciously asking a question, in fact, our geneticists have long understood the real answer to this sentence through research.
Through a lot of practice and research, geneticists have found that in fact, a child's personality follows whom? There is no standard answer, because the child's temper will indeed resemble that of the father or the mother, but there is no shortage of children who have their own set of temper management systems. But what is certain is that a child's temper has already formed when they are fetuses.
First, the relationship between temper and heredity is not large
Children already have their own temperament in the fetal period, it is possible that they learn a little introverted mother, or they may learn a little extroverted father at the moment, but the characteristics shown at this time are often just a coincidence, and are not really related to heredity. So you're going to measure a child's temperament against his genetic makeup in this family, which is basically wrong.
Second, temper is indeed most affected by congenital factors
Of course, since a child's temper has nothing to do with heredity, is it not that the child's temper is acquired? Should we parents strive to improve our children's personality the day after tomorrow?
This is also wrong, although remembering that temper does not mean that parents and heredity are not related, but this does not mean that their temper is not related to congenitality. That is to say, when the child's temper is in the mother's womb, it has been formed, which also shows that the child's temper formation is innate, that is, it is brought out of his own personality, not caused by the acquired environmental impact.
Three. The mother's state during pregnancy has a great impact on the child's temper
It seems that if you want to change your child's temper, it is too late to wait until the day after tomorrow, so all mothers should correct their state in time when they are pregnant, which has the greatest impact on the child's temper. For example, some mothers are more stressed during pregnancy, the temper is not very good, and her child may be born with a larger temper, or even a little strange, so that parents feel that it is difficult to understand and manage for a while.
And a mother in a more comfortable mood during pregnancy, then the temper of the child she gave birth to is relatively mild, when managing the child, parents will feel much more relaxed!
It can be seen that pregnant mothers must pay attention to the regulation of their emotions during pregnancy. After all, we must know that "the country is easy to change, the nature is difficult to move", a person's personality, once a fixed temper pattern is formed in the mother's belly, then it is difficult for her to change after birth.
Therefore, if you want to establish the character of a child, start with your mother's pregnancy.
On the road to parenting, we are all novices, how to take better care of children, you can pay attention to me, and discuss with me those things on the road to parenting.