If you want to win the praise of strangers and gain a foothold in unfamiliar situations, clear language skills are important. Children who are good at expression, no matter where they go, can always win a place through their own language charm. Therefore, parents hope that their children can bloom lotus flowers.
However, each child's language ability is different, and it really responds to the sentence "some joys, some sorrows". Some children are small in age, but they can speak wittily; and some children, even a complete sentence, is difficult to express clearly, and the voice is particularly small, completely bottomless.
For this reason, parents are particularly worried, afraid that they will lose more opportunities because they can't speak clearly. Indeed, most of the children who talk only about promises are not confident enough, and they are a little timid in their bones. In the end, it is inevitable that they will lose their opportunities, and they will not have too many friends, which will have a far-reaching impact on their future.
It is understandable that parents are worried, but the strange thing is that many parents actually associate their children's performance with their physical and mental health. At one time, I felt that the reason why children have poor expression ability is because of poor intellectual development or psychological reasons.
But in fact, the child's expression ability is not enough, most of which is the reason for the parents, either the wrong way of education, or the requirements are too high. At this stage, what parents have to do is not to compare with others, but to find the best way to guide their children's current situation and let them get out of language troubles as soon as possible.
It only takes two little tricks to unlock your child's speaking skills.
First, according to the age, develop a program suitable for children
Parents should understand that children of different ages, their learning, acceptance and expression skills are different, and they should combine reality and develop a teaching plan suitable for themselves.
Before the age of 3: Children before kindergarten, it is recommended to stimulate their desire to express themselves through the game of "you ask me and answer", while exercising children's thinking ability. Don't be too hard, and have your child like it.
Before the age of 5: has entered kindergarten, has a certain "social" experience, and can help children express themselves more clearly by telling stories and repeating stories.
Before the age of 7: The transformation from kindergarten to primary school, the child's ability in all aspects has improved, at this time, through the way of practice, let the child learn to express. The best way to do this is to take him outside, meet more strangers, and encourage children to communicate.
Second, parents cooperate and do a good job of language sparring
Parents who can speak, the child will certainly not be bad, which shows that the parents' education and language education are more important. In life, we must do a good job of language sparring for children, and communicate with them more. Don't always guess what your child thinks, but encourage them to say it, even if it's not clear enough.
I believe that the more times you say it, the more children will be able to master a certain vocabulary and expression. Over time, they will also become confident and willing to communicate with more people. In this process, parents should encourage more, rather than blindly denying. Only by giving children more opportunities to speak can they accumulate more experience.
Write at the end: No matter how busy you are, it is good to take time every day to accompany your child to read and chat, even if it is a simple fragment. By the way, occasionally having your child watch TV is also a way to enrich your vocabulary.
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