Parents are the best teachers for children, with the progress of society, the transformation of family education, parents have gradually changed from a strict and unquestionable identity to a humorous and even somewhat naughty and cute friendship relationship, and parents after the eighties are more thriving, and they are very good at their children's education.
On college campuses, the latest generation of college students is more youthful and energetic, but their parents are the most surprising generation.
At present, the parents of college students are basically the generation of 70s and 80s, and their conversations with their children are more relaxed and pleasant, and they are even ridiculed that their children are not biological.
The chat records of college students and their parents became popular, and it turned out that parents were the scribblers
After college students come to campus, they will maintain communication with their parents every day, so the communication is very estranged, very humorous and funny. A college student wanted to chat with his father and tell him what he missed, and his father listened to it and said directly, don't think about me until the end of the month!
It turns out that the real scribblers are our parents, although the father's words are more cold on the surface, but in fact they are full of love and humor for their children.
Another college student said to his parents that he had a girlfriend, but his parents said that we were very self-aware of our son's appearance, and we must be asking for more living expenses, and lied that we had a girlfriend. It can be seen that parents do not have the slightest estrangement from their children, although they are full of jokes but they are funny.
Female classmates and fathers asked for birthday gifts in advance, and the father asked very naturally, why do you want birthday gifts in advance, is it not a birthday?
From the dialogue, it can be seen that there is no barrier between the feelings between father and daughter, and they get along and chat like friends. Such a chat screenshot also made a lot of people laugh, very humorous and funny, and a relaxed and pleasant atmosphere.
How can children establish effective communication after they start their college life?
Effective communication with children is the most concerned thing for parents, after the end of the child's college entrance examination, they will embark on a university life far from the family, grow independently during college, and are not always concerned by parents, so parents are very worried about their children's negative psychological changes, affecting their children's growth.
Therefore, establishing effective communication with children has become the direction of parents' joint efforts. First of all, parents can first understand their children's schedule and schedule.
Then you can know at what time it is more appropriate to contact the child, will not disturb the child's normal time planning, and understand the recent situation and psychological changes with the child every day, so that you can detect the problems in the child's life for the first time.
In addition, in order to eliminate the generation gap between parents and children, parents need to consider problems from the perspective of their children, use the tone of friends to talk and communicate with their children, and students will be more willing to talk about their troubles and problems in growth, and will definitely get unexpected gains. It can also eliminate the gap between parents and children, and it is very close to each other's feelings.
In addition, in the education of the new era, parents should learn to respect their children's choices and decisions, so that children can freely make life choices under the guidance of the correct outlook on life, without interfering too much with their children's ideas.
When children frequently ask for living expenses, they can correctly guide children to consume rationally and communicate with children in a humorous way. The parents of this kind of scribble hand seem to be ruthless, but they are very popular with students.
Only in humorous communication can we communicate better, and parents should teach their children to develop excellent values in a relaxed and pleasant state.
When college students are not understood by their parents, how can they get their parents' support?
In effective communication, the perspective of the parent is said, and the perspective of the child. Many times, college students make decisions that are not recognized and understood by their parents, which is due to different generations of different ideas.
And parents have more life experience, always in advance to know whether the child's choice is correct. When a child has his or her own choice, the parent becomes so anxious that he forgets how to communicate.
Therefore, at this time, students must understand the good intentions of their parents, calmly face their parents' doubts and obstacles, and then express their ideas clearly, telling their parents why they chose this way, what is the meaning.
When parents can't understand, we must understand their parents' intentions, try to analyze their parents' thoughts and intentions, and analyze them in combination with their own situation.
In the process of communicating with parents, it is necessary to pay attention to the tone and attitude, maintain a relaxed way of getting along with parents, and connect emotions with humorous and funny expressions, in order to get along with parents like friends, and get more affirmation and support from parents in the future.
Conclusion: Parents are the people who give the most to the family, they work hard, leave all their savings to their children, so that children can receive a better education. Therefore, they are sometimes helpless, and they often seem extremely nervous and anxious in the face of the pressures of real life.
Therefore, we must understand the hardships of our parents, communicate with our parents regularly during college life, care about their lives and troubles, talk to each other and encourage each other, and truly communicate like teachers and teachers like friends, and have a happy emotional exchange with parents.
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