I have seen a sentence before: a family with a messy room cannot teach excellent children.
For this sentence, I have always disagreed, and I always feel that whether the room is messy or not has no direct relationship with whether the child is excellent or not. Because in the end, the important factor that determines whether he has a job or not depends on his various abilities, and has nothing to do with the room.
But after really becoming a parent, I found that this sentence is not empty, and reality will teach you a lesson. It turns out that the impact of family life on children is more profound than all early education and schools. As a child's first teacher, parents have a great responsibility.
Many times, the answer can be found through film and television dramas. Looking at those gold collars who have successful careers, which are not clean and tidy, even the home environment is the same. And those who always do not pay attention to the image, the living environment is messy, but it is difficult for them to create miracles, and life is mostly mediocre.
Speaking of which, many parents are beginning to wonder what the messy room has to do with their children's future. To be precise: the two are inextricably linked, and will never be separated.
The impact of the living environment on children is not a star and a half
1. Mood influence
Facing the messy room every day, the child's mood will not be too good, and even feel a little depressed. Parents may feel fussy, but that's the way it is, backed by rigorous data. It is no exaggeration to say that the influence of the environment on mood is fatal and has nothing to do with age.
2. Behavioral influences
What seems like a messy environment can constantly affect your child's behavior. Clothes thrown everywhere, toys spilled on the ground, and learning tools that can never be found... These are the daily behaviors of children. If you can't even find the books and tools for study, how can you get good results?
3. Habit influence
Under the dual influence of parents and the environment, children will also be forced to identify. Slowly, their habits will change and they will become unorganized and self-disciplined children. Most importantly, the boy was not serious at all, because he never understood why he was serious.
All in all, the messy family environment will hinder the growth of children. Moreover, it will also pose a certain threat to their health. The whole room is a mess, there must be a lot of harmful substances, all kinds of bacteria and dust, will quietly invade the child's body. The consequences are really unimaginable.
So, stop taking chances and try to start cleaning up the house to provide a healthier living atmosphere for your children. I believe that parents have heard the phrase: "If a house is not swept, why sweep the world", right? In order not to be a stumbling block that affects your child, it's time to start changing and start paying attention to the details of life.
Warm tips for parents about cleaning and tidying up the house
1. Clean and mop the floor every day
Before going to bed at night, parents remember to take time to clean the room and drag the corners and corners again. In this way, when I go to bed in the morning, the whole room is particularly clean and tidy, not only the mood becomes beautiful, but also the morning does not have to be too panicked.
2. Laundry and classification
Washing machines are already so convenient, why pile up clothes all over the house? After washing and drying clothes, please also put away and classify them in time, and do not always hang on the drying rack. It looks untidy, and under the sun, it will also affect the life of the clothes.
In simple terms, the cleaning and tidying of the house is particularly simple. The point is, defeat the "laziness" in your heart and not make excuses for yourself. Many parents would rather lie on the couch and brush their phones than get up to do housework. The saddest thing is that every time I comfort myself with "doing it tomorrow."
Just want to say: tomorrow after tomorrow, how many tomorrows? If today's things can't be done, how to teach children "today's things, today's completion"?
It just so happens that when parents change, they change their children by the way
Education is never afraid of being late. The best time is when parents are doing it, and slowly affect their children. Depending on their age, children are invited to do different chores to reshape their worldview.
Before the age of 3: Simply throw away the garbage, wipe the table, and pack up your own toys and picture books. At this stage, the main thing is to cultivate the child's sense of rules, so that he can slowly develop the habit of doing housework.
3-6 years old: In kindergarten, children grow not only in age, but also in their minds and receptive abilities. Basic housework, as long as the parents guide, they can do a good job, to "use" without stinginess,
6 years old and older: do your own thing, you should do it yourself, which is a necessary skill for elementary school students. At the very least, the child should do the laundry, school bag and cleaning the house independently.
Write at the end: doing housework has nothing to do with age, don't think that children are small, they can't do it well. In fact, children are far more "competitive" than adults think, as long as they are hard and hard enough, they will definitely do a lot of things.