How do you feed your child? Is your child's spleen and stomach okay? Speaking of such a topic, many mothers will complain that their children eat too hard, half a day can not be fed, digestion is not good, pulling rice are difficult. Parents with these problems, don't worry, let's talk about this topic today.
Grandma chewed up the food to feed the children, which is very inappropriate!
Take the child back to the hometown for the New Year, see a grandmother feeding the child on the street, more than 2 years old child, yo-yo da walking, looking east and west, is not nibbling, the grandmother shouted behind the ass, coaxing, the child came back easily, the grandmother quickly chewed her own food, put it out with a spoon, and fed the child a bite. After taking a bite, the child walked away again.
The children were playing on the street, and I couldn't help but go over and ask, "How do children eat like this?" Grandma said, "If you don't feed like this, he can't chew." I said, "Isn't that unhygienic?" Grandma said, "Hey, my granddaughter is a premature baby, and now it's difficult to eat, don't feed or eat, and can't look at the child like this, right?" Good to chew, he ate it well, swallowed it well, and digested it! ”
In this grandmother's words, she expressed her own helplessness. She felt that she was also for the good of her children, and there was nothing wrong with it! Some people call this way of feeding "Chinese feeding". This way is not only unhygienic, but also harmful to the baby's body, especially the spleen and stomach!
I have also seen in the news that a child who has been fed (chewed up) has been admitted to the hospital and checked to be infected with Helicobacter pylori. It can be seen that such a way of taking a baby is really not in the minority!
As parents in the new era, and for the sake of their children's health, we really have to resist this kind of "Chinese feeding" behavior! Today to share with you, the 3 ways for children to eat obediently, take the baby to eat in a scientific way, and your baby will also eat obediently!
Three ways to let the child eat obediently
For infants and young children, their stomach digestion is weak, and they can work food cooking, making soft and delicious food. But do not give the child mouth-to-mouth feeding, which may pass some bacteria and viruses to the child through saliva and affect his health.
For example, Helicobacter pylori, which is very transmitted, is chewed and fed to children, which increases the probability of disease. Therefore, it is not recommended to feed, parents should develop good eating habits for their children in order to completely get rid of "Chinese feeding".
Method 1: Grasp the signal of self-feeding
From the moment your child wants to eat on his own, develop good eating habits. The average baby is about 6 months old and becomes interested in "eating".
For example, when my child was just 6 months old, when he saw me eating, he would follow the bar and spit on it, want to eat, and sometimes grab food and stuff it into his mouth.
This is the signal to cultivate independent eating, parents should seize it, let the child eat independently. From trying to eat at the beginning to developing a good habit of eating on their own, children will have a great sense of accomplishment and be willing to eat obediently.
Tips: When eating independently, the preparation of complementary foods should be as fine as possible, and the shape is convenient for children to grasp, which will stimulate their desire to eat on their own. Also, remember to prepare their own cutlery and dining chairs to enjoy eating by yourself.
Method two: Establish a sense of ritual at eating
How did your family eat? Eat while watching TV? Or eat while chatting? This is not right, the old saying is "eating without sleeping", that is, eating and sleeping should be focused, try not to talk, let alone watch TV.
I eat with my children and rarely talk, and even when I do, I discuss food-related matters. For example, what is the nutrition of this vegetable, what ingredients are made of soup, and so on.
In this atmosphere, children will feel that eating is a very grand thing, but also a matter that needs to be focused, naturally they will not be distracted and eat well.
Option 3: Give up the "reward" after the meal
Some parents see that their children do not like to eat, they will say, then after eating, reward you with a candy! This trick works very well, and the child will eat it quickly.
But after eating, I quarreled with stomach pain, because I ate too fast, the stomach digestion ability is weak, and the backlog of food caused stomach pain.
Therefore, try not to set such a reward, eating is the child's own business, there is no need to take the reward to tempt the child. For a long time, I am willing to eat obediently for the sake of reward, and I will not eat without reward. After the disappearance of external forces, the child's eating habits are still not formed, and parents have more headaches!
Of course, in the stage when children do not like to eat, parents should consider, is the meal unappetizing? Or is the child sick? Try to improve the color and shape of the diet to help children fall in love with eating.
In the early hours of the morning, mom came to nag:
The way of "chewing up the feeding" is very undesirable, parents who are still doing it, please stop as soon as possible! On the way for children to eat independently, a little more patience, a little less intervention, a little more tricks, a little less reprimand, he will love to eat more and more!
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