Is your child good to bring?
I believe that the answer of many parents is: difficult to bring!
The child is like an engine, full of vitality at all times, either jumping up and down, or mischievous, always have to find a little anger for the parents.
Some parents are even angry with their children and their blood pressure is elevated.
There is one such child in our village, who is also a classmate of our elementary school. At that time, parents did not pay much attention to education, and children were handed over to the teacher and let the teacher discipline. And he was often beaten by the teacher, and he was often called a parent.
He never wrote homework, and when he went to the evening self-study class, he either skipped class, or boiled syrup on a candle with a bottle cap, fried shiitake mushrooms in a stationery box...
And he also seemed to be more and more frustrated and courageous, to his father's mouth, to play thirty-six tricks...
When his father was most angry, he put him in a sack and threw him into the river, and it was his mother who cried and stopped his father.
However, whether he was in the same grade or older than us, he had a large group of friends, and the classmates called them "underworld".
The people in the village did not look favorably on him, and his parents gave up hope.
After dropping out of school, the child went to the south to work. Hearing from him many years later, he was already a successful person.
We built a bungalow, bought a car, and paid for the renovation of our elementary school campus.
Even the teacher who beat him the most said: I didn't expect him to be so successful! When I was young, I was a child who was all kinds of mischievous and mischievous, which caused teachers and parents a headache.
Although he is all kinds of naughty, his essence is not bad, and after being tempered as a child, his organizational ability and ability to resist pressure are very strong, which also lays the foundation for his success in the workplace in the future.
Therefore, when the child is small, mischievous is more difficult to bring, which does not mean that the child cannot become an excellent person in the future.
In particular, there are 4 kinds of children in the family, which are more difficult to bring when they are young, but they may be the most prominent when they grow up.
Talk a lot of kids
This kind of child talks a lot. I feel that if you say one sentence, he can refute three sentences, and sometimes even make adults unable to cope.
And the children who talk about it, you will find that they are still outstanding in three aspects
Subtle observation
The fact that a child can talk to you endlessly shows that the child has a very subtle sense of observation. He only saw it and observed it in detail, so he could tell it to his parents.
Fluent expression
Some children see that they may not be able to express it, which also shows that the child's expression is different, and those who talk about it, his expression is relatively fluent.
Super social
Talkative children will habitually take the initiative to greet others wherever they go. This kind of child is also known as "social master", which is what we call, the child does not recognize the stranger when he sees him, and can quickly have a conversation with other children and mingle.
Even some children can talk regardless of age, and this social ability is really strong.
The child's love to talk shows that he has his own ideas, and this kind of child is often very active in his thinking, so when your child talks endlessly about a thing to you, parents should not easily interrupt him.
Children who love to talk have these three abilities, which is their advantage. In the future, children will also be a strong point in this regard.
Children who cry at a small thing
Ever seen that kind of super crying kid?
When my daughter was young, she loved to cry, the toy was broken, she cried, she cried when she left her mother, and when she went to kindergarten, she cried for two months, and I almost couldn't hold back and wanted to give my child a leave.
I was particularly skeptical, why do other children laugh so much? And my daughter always cries? Sometimes even if I do something wrong, I don't criticize her, why do I still cry?
Later, every time she cried, I would patiently ask her why she was crying. Only to know that every time the child cries is for a reason, not to cry unreasonably.
In fact, the crying child is more empathetic than other children, her ideas are more delicate, the reason for saying it is always unexpected, you will be reluctant to criticize the child, from another aspect, this kind of child's emotional intelligence is relatively high.
If your child cries more than any other child, don't blame him, parents should hug him more.
Lively and active children
Energetic baby all day long, really toss people. It feels as if the child does not know tiredness, the adult is already tired, the child is still full of vitality, pulling the adult to play with him.
This type of child tends to be energetic, active in thinking, full of curiosity about everything, and want to try it or explore it.
Parents should not think that such children are too skinny and difficult to carry, but this kind of children are more creative.
So don't force your child to be as quiet as other children, under the premise of ensuring safety, let your child move and explore more, there is no harm, only benefits!
Criticism turns around and forgets, commonly known as "cheeky" children
Now many children are becoming more and more introverted, and can even become a "glass heart", parents can not criticize, can not say that the child is not right, the exam is not good can not say, or give you a, run away from home or something.
Therefore, the child's thick skin is very good, indicating that the child has the ability to resist pressure.
Criticize him, blame him once, he turns around and forgets, still giggling, not taking things to heart, nor drilling the tip of the bull's horn.
On the surface, such children are thick-skinned and cannot remember criticism, but from another angle, it shows that the child's mentality is better and can repair itself.
Although looking at the appearance of no heart and no lungs, it seems that nothing is in the heart, in fact, this kind of child is born an optimist, and will remember everything well when encountering it, forget the unhappy things, which is also the soft power of the child.
After reading this, do you still think that your children are difficult to carry?
Everything has two sides, we can not only see the child's "shortcomings", we believe that the child is difficult to bring, disobedient, change the angle, plus the correct guidance, will become the child's shining point!
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