The impact of confinement feud on motherhood is lifelong.
Domestic mothers have the tradition of confinement, although the physical fitness of many women is very good, but the inheritance of confinement will not be less. This month has been a very critical month.
But I don't know if it is because today's children are delicate, and the mother has become delicate. The possibility of a confinement feud between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law has skyrocketed. Many mother-in-law and daughter-in-law relationships have also begun to break down.
Ye Haiyang's confinement of her second child became a problem
As a representative of contemporary independent women, Ye Haiyang went abroad to buy essence at the peak of his career and fulfilled his dream of becoming a mother. Her independent boldness has become the object of admiration of many women.
After many years, Ye Haiyang also embarked on the road of having a second child, actively responded to the call of the state, added a "playmate" for himself and his daughter, and had more hope for life.
The father of these two children is actually the same person, a high-quality student of mixed race in four countries, coupled with Ye Haiyang's unique entrepreneurial vision, the children will be able to live as adults when they grow up.
Even if Ye Haiyang is not married, has no husband, and is not a baby who has been conceived through the conventional in vivo conception, after she gives birth, she also needs to confinement and recover her figure.
In the photo of her self-detonation, we can clearly see that her belly is still very large, no different from when she was about to give birth, but we didn't know until we saw the baby in her arms that she had finished giving birth.
Netizens who care about her will definitely have such a question, without a mother-in-law and husband, what should she do with her confinement? It's all about her and her mother, isn't it a little too hard?
There is no "confinement feud", which is also a big advantage for single mothers
It is precisely because there is no mother-in-law and husband that she can easily face the confinement, see the faces of the two children every day, and feel the beauty of life.
Maternity expects too much, but always gets disappointed
In the month after giving birth, the mothers' bodies are basically in a very weak state, unable to touch cold things, unable to eat irritating foods, and even unable to wash their hair and bathe, which is a challenge.
Moreover, at this stage, the children also cry and torture their mothers all day long, which is simply to force the mothers to the end of the road. Causing them to light a fire is not something incomprehensible.
If the mother-in-law and husband are slightly under-care, the mother will feel extremely insecure, take it out of context, and take the small view as the norm for the mothers.
Confinement is a time of high incidence of postpartum depression
This month of confinement is like a touchstone, testing the mother-in-law's attitude towards the daughter-in-law, and some understanding mother-in-law will be more responsible, after all, they are all people who come over and know how critical this month is.
Even if you look at the face of your child, you will not worry too much with your daughter-in-law, and everything within the scope of your ability can be done perfectly.
However, if you have an unreasonable mother-in-law, it is really a daughter-in-law's nightmare. The mother-in-law will feel that she has not been carefully served, why should she serve her? What's the big deal, as for being so pretentious?
Over time, even if the daughter-in-law does not want to trouble the mother-in-law, she will deliberately say it to the mother-in-law in order to give the mother-in-law eye drops. So much so that the vicious circle, the relationship between the two people is getting more and more rigid.
Out of sight, out of mind
Ye Haiyang used his own personal experience to prove to his daughters-in-law that if you want to get a good mood, you can't see it and don't bother. What I see every day is my beloved daughter, or the boss who understands things, and nothing bad happens.
Even when taking care of my daughter, I can't do it, but what can I do? Don't you still need to face and overcome it yourself? On the contrary, the daughter's need for herself can stimulate her own strength.
It is also the church of all the maternity, to be self-reliant and self-reliant! There is no need to ask others for what you can accomplish, even your own mother will feel trouble, let alone a mother-in-law who is not related by blood?
It's like taking care of your confinement, you can ask your sister-in-law to help you share it. Nowadays, the aunts in the service industry do not know how many times better than their own mother-in-law! Why not?
Today's Topic:
When you were having a baby, did you have a feud? How is your relationship with your mother-in-law now? Feel free to share your thoughts with us!