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Scientific parenting is to use the right method to deal with various problems that may occur in the process of children's growth. But due to traditional ideas, scientific parenting is not very accepted in the minds of the elderly, who are more willing to believe in the experience of the older generation.
Parenting experience is not undesirable, but there are too many factors affected, and its scientificity and accuracy are debatable.
Especially for parenting, although the elderly have a lot of experience, they have only raised two or three children, and these "experiences" alone are far from enough, and even many problems...
The baby's 100-day grandmother made crucian carp "open meat" and gave her grandson to the hospital
An "experienced" grandmother in Hunan insisted on boiling crucian carp soup on the day of her grandson's 100th day, because there is a folk saying that she wants to "open meat" for the baby.
After drinking the crucian carp soup made by grandma, the baby who was still alive actually spat up white foam and sent it to the hospital for examination, because the baby was allergic to fish soup, but fortunately, it was timely treatment to avoid more serious consequences.
As the hospital doctor said, the folk "meat opening ceremony" actually has no scientific basis, and can only be regarded as a sense of ceremony. From a scientific point of view, eating meat in a 3-month-old baby is a very dangerous thing, and it will definitely cause indigestion or gastrointestinal discomfort.
If the allergy is serious and even life-threatening, even if you want to add meat supplements to your baby, at least until after half a year.
It is understandable that the elderly in the family believe in various indigenous methods and folklore, but the young parents cannot and cannot also become ignorant.
A 2-month-old baby girl in Qingyuan. Doing CT was found to have a small amount of bleeding in the skull, and I did not expect that the culprit was the mother.
The mother's area has a saying that "confinement can not eat greens", so the mother of the baby girl did not eat green vegetables during the entire confinement period, resulting in insufficient vitamin K for the baby girl, which affected the coagulation factor, and there was a tragedy of "intracranial hemorrhage".
Whether it is the elderly or parents, the original intention is for the good of the child, but the experience of the older generation lacks scientific evidence, and the time span is too long, and the previous experience is not necessarily suitable for today's children.
The old thinking of the elderly has taken root, but young parents really have to keep the bottom line on the issue of parenting, and don't let the "folk saying" harm the baby.
Parents say 'no' to the "folk saying"
White wine wipe can cool down children with fever:
It's no secret that when I was a child, my mother really rubbed my back with liquor, but when my mother was ready to use the same method to cool my son, I resolutely refused.
The alcohol content in liquor is very high, and the delicate skin of infants and young children is very easy to absorb, which may not only affect the development of the brain nervous system, but also may lead to alcoholism in the baby. Following the advice of a doctor is the most reliable way to cool down physically or with medications.
It is better to make milk powder with bottled pure water:
The recycling of water must go through the disinfection link, which leads many people to think that the water flowing from the faucet at home has disinfectant water mixed in, and adults can drink it, but they are not assured to give children to drink.
So people with conditions will buy bottled pure water to make milk powder for the baby, in fact, there are no trace elements and mineral elements of water in pure water, and drinking such water for a long time will cause insufficient intake of nutrient trace elements.
Although the tap water at home is disinfected, it will not be mixed with disinfectant water, which is in line with the drinking standard, and the milk powder for the baby can be boiled and cooled.
Giving baby leggings can grow big legs:
Whether the child is a big leg is related to heredity and acquired development, and the older generation firmly believes that if the baby is leggings, the baby's legs can be long and straight.
I don't know what the basis for this is, but long-term leggings will affect the blood circulation of the baby's legs, affect the development of bones, and will cause psychological shadows to the baby in infancy, so that the baby is comfortable and pedaling to play?
Encourage your child to eat in large and eat more:
Many parents, especially the parents of the next generation, especially like to watch their children gobble up and eat, thinking that this can prove that the baby's appetite is good, the appetite is strong, sometimes the child is full, and the parents can't help but persuade the child to eat more and eat more!
But in fact, eating fast and eating more is not a manifestation of a good appetite, but eating too fast food before it can be bitten into the stomach, which will increase the burden on the stomach and develop unhealthy living habits.
From an early age, children should sit quietly and eat, avoid chasing feeding, overeating, and helping children develop good habits of healthy and scientific eating from an early age.
Children are treasures in the palms of parents' hands and should be well cared for, but whether it is young parents or the elderly at home, they should take the initiative to learn scientific parenting knowledge, abandon old ideas and methods, and escort the healthy growth of babies
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What other folk sayings do you know that are harmful to babies?