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"Every day with the child to write homework, night and night such roar, roar, in addition to the soaring lung capacity, the others are declining!" Can't afford to hurt....."
Some time ago, there was an idiom in the circle of friends of parents that made people can't help but be funny - long-distance and close-range attack.
Some netizens have made a "new interpretation" of this idiom: when the child is doing homework, he can be far away, he can communicate a little, and it is difficult to get closer, and it is difficult not to attack him.
It seems to be a perversion, but many parents said that they were touched by this real and sour word, which caused countless resonances!
Regarding the homework with the baby, whether you have a baby at home or a temporary worry, in short, this is an "epic" social phenomenon that you absolutely cannot avoid.
Because, whether you watch it or not, the relevant news is there, flying endlessly;
If you have a baby, whether you want it or not, the homework book is on the desk, stacked up and spread out.
But accompanying children to do homework is indeed not a simple thing, today's mother's advice, simple and efficient! Teachers are advised to transfer it to parents!
Some time ago, there was a very hot video, in which a father was accompanying his child to do homework, and the child would not have a question, no matter how the father said it, the child did not understand.
At first, Dad was still looking like he was self-abandoned, and then he sighed and re-lectured the child.
As he spoke, the father's emotions finally exploded, and he roared angrily at the child, "Every day we are tired, we are not tired!" ”
When this video was sent out, many parents said that they had similar experiences, accompanying their children to do homework, and often could not control their temper and fierce children.
And when you finish yelling at your child, you will have some regrets.
Now parents pay more and more attention to their children's learning, when their children return home from school, many parents will choose to accompany their children to do homework.
But accompanying children to do homework is not a simple thing, especially when parents have a violent temper, they can only silently say in their hearts "This is biological!" Biological! Biological! ”。
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So, what should parents do when their children do their homework? This mother has accompanied her children to write homework for more than ten years and has accumulated rich experience, parents may wish to learn:
1
Prepare a fixed learning corner for your child
Some parents are more indulgent of their children, and the children can do their homework wherever they want, sometimes at the dinner table, sometimes on the living room coffee table, and sometimes the children casually lie on a stool to do homework.
But parents have thought about it, the dining table, the coffee table, are the places where we often move.
If there are more people in the family and we walk around, it will cause the child to be distracted and affect the child's homework.
Therefore, parents should prepare a fixed learning corner for their children, so that children understand that they should devote themselves to learning in this place.
2
When children do homework, parents should not keep staring
Some parents like to stare at their children when they are doing homework, and once they find that their children have done the wrong questions, they will immediately correct them.
For example, a mother in the previous variety show "Metamorphosis", when the child is doing homework, this mother is with her.
At the beginning, you can still patiently guide the child, but when the child makes a mistake in some simple problems, the mother is not calm, and begins to yell at the child, "You can't do such a simple problem", "You think I joke with you every day"... The child was silent and in tears.
In fact, parents have been staring at their children to do homework, which will cause some pressure on their children. In particular, some parents can't control their temper and will yell at their children.
Children are often overwhelmed by this tense atmosphere, and some problems that would have been done may not be able to do.
Therefore, parents are best not to stare at their children to do homework, when the child returns home from school, parents let the children go to the learning corner to do homework, and parents will do their own things.
But keep in mind that parents can't watch TV, play on their phones and supervise their children to learn, which may cause an imbalance in their children's mentality.
Parents can read books, do their own work, and create a good learning atmosphere.
3
Develop good, homework habits in children
Some parents reflected that their children are naughty, if the parents do not accompany him to do homework, he will not write seriously, only if we stare at him to do, he can be serious.
There are also some children who procrastinate in doing homework, small movements are continuous, and they have difficulty concentrating.
Parents can not always accompany their children, then we parents should help children develop some good homework habits:
Review first, then write homework in a closed book
Most of the children's homework is a consolidation exercise for the day's learning content, and if the child reviews it before doing homework every day, it is very helpful for the child to learn.
We have also said before that it is best for children to do homework without turning over books and looking at knowledge points to do problems, and it is best to do problems in closed volumes.
Because the exam is closed-book, if we can usually do homework behind closed volumes, we can also cope with it calmly during the exam.
Cultivate children's sense of time
Some children procrastinate with homework, which would otherwise only take an hour to complete, and children often have to spend two or three hours.
Therefore, we parents should not condone it, but should set time rules for our children. For example, 30 minutes for Chinese, 30 minutes for mathematics, etc.
Let your child complete the homework within the specified time, and reward or punish according to the speed of completion.
Of course, this reward and punishment rule must be discussed with the child in advance, and the quality of the homework must also be required.
Develop good writing habits in children
Teach children to maintain correct writing posture and achieve "head straight, straight body, flat shoulders, and safe feet". Hold the pen in one hand and hold the book in the other.
Do a neat handwriting, write standardly, do not scribble on the homework book, and keep the paper clean.
After all, we have a paper score for the exam, the paper is not neat will be deducted points, if the child can usually do a good job of paper clean, the exam can also be done well.
Cultivate the good habit of thinking diligently
Some children do not like to think, when they encounter problems that they will not do in the homework, they will immediately ask parents for help, hoping that parents will give themselves a lecture.
We parents please do not be busy with the children's topics, we should encourage the children to think and review the questions, to see what kind of knowledge points the topics test.
If the child really can't do it, parents can explain it to the child.
But not too carefully, it is not advisable to give the child the answer, you should only talk about the key points, point to the end, and then let the child think for himself.
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