There is no parent who does not want their children to be smart and obedient, but often these two aspects are opposites, the better the doll is not necessarily smart and clever, but the smarter the baby is also mostly difficult to carry.
Smart kids do have some bad things to bring
Most of the children who are good at it are well-behaved but have no curiosity or recklessness, and it is precisely because of this that there is no way to break through more things they know and try more new things. For smart babies, most of them can't stay idle, curious, not only reckless but also adventurous, often make a mess of their homes, and parents are also very distressed by such bear children.
I have a friend, she has such a bear child at home, although he looks lively and smart, but at home is the king of the real demolition, the parents of the front foot to clean up the tidy house, the back foot will be messed up by him, he does not love to sort out the toys, but also often love to disassemble all kinds of simple mechanical toys, the sofa and bed at home are difficult to escape his hands.
My friend is also troubled by this matter, and has tried many methods, such as patient guidance and severe correction, and even scolded, but it can only be managed once, twice or for a period of time, and after a long time, it will return to its nature, and the cycle will go back and forth, and my friend will be miserable for this.
Later, after I introduced Professor Li Meijin's course to him, she used her leisure time to read the professor's books "Children's Personality Formation and Cultivation" and "Psychological Upbringing", and through learning friends, he found that his educational methods were indeed problematic, and for the growth of his children, he said that he learned to respect the nature of children more, and guided them to grow freely to explore the unknown world.
Although the smarter the child, the more difficult it is to carry, but a child with the following three characteristics will not only not affect the child's development but also make the child more excellent.
When children have these 3 behaviors, it is usually a symbol of intelligence, and parents secretly have fun
1, there are 100,000 whys in the head
Small head big thoughts, every day there are always countless why to ask parents, sometimes children ask questions will make parents feel very naïve, and do not want to answer, often speechless, and even bored.
At this time, parents should not be bothered, the child's spirit of loving to ask questions should be encouraged, this is his curiosity and love to think, explore the initial performance of unknown things, if you can correctly guide the solution of the doubts in the child's heart, then the child will have a greater amount of knowledge storage.
2, always love to do destruction
Just like my friend said that often children will jump around in bed, once when the child jumped on the bed, the head of the bed was against the wall, the child pushed the head of the bed down, and the bed was trampled.
Friends' furniture is not exempt from the difficulty of the table has been changed to the third generation, the chair is often made of missing arms and legs, the walls are also painted colorful, indeed every child will be destroyed For adults, it is indeed very infuriating, but think about it, this is not the time when children develop hands-on ability?
Since they love to do it, parents should guide them and should do it within the scope of their own hands. Children do not understand boundaries, so parents tell him how to follow the boundaries to find a position.
3, always bounce a moment, will not idle themselves
Perhaps such a child will make parents and others feel too noisy or even feel very upset, when the child is noisy, always can't help but stop.
Parents hope that their children can be more gentle and quiet, as long as they do not make trouble, parents will support. But think about it, children in the stage of not developing maturity, always love to use the body to explore their own unknown things, through non-stop movement, they can become stronger, the mind will be more sensitive, at this time, parents should accompany them to play together, guide children how to play correctly, thereby reducing the destructiveness of children's play.
In general, the cultivation of children should start from an early age, everyone wants their children to be smart and have a high IQ, but how to cultivate a smart IQ without training?
Parents should grasp the various stages of children's development, such as infant and young children, childhood, in the infant period, to pay attention to the development of children's audition stage, the development of touch and observation ability, as well as the development of cognitive ability and language ability, wait until the child is one or two years old and then carry out self-awareness development, help children to make language reserves, then the child's IQ development and physical and mental health, will be guaranteed.
When the child grows up, not only has a high IQ and cleverness, but also his own natural and active nature, then your child is an excellent child in the eyes of others, commonly known as "other people's children".