In the course of life, will you meet bear children? At home, sometimes deliberately and sometimes unintentionally pit daddy and mom pit relatives. Away from home and likes to pit strangers.
Two weeks ago, a mom in Kunming experienced a nightmare in her neighborhood where her son was stuck in a vending machine. The unit building surveillance camera recorded the whole process.
At 6:30 p.m. on this day, Ms. Cao took her 6-year-old son to play in the community. The son saw a child of his own age and suddenly dumped his mother, and the two little boys ran around in the community.
After they ran into the unit building, they played around the ping-pong table for a while. Soon, the two little boys noticed the vending machine in the corner.
Cao's mother's son looked at the little playmate who was about the same age as himself, and he had been operating the panel and pressing the keyhole on the panel. After he finished pressing, he kicked twice at the door of the machine's storage box.
I don't know who pressed what button, and at the same time, Cao's mother's son kicked twice. Suddenly, the storage box door in the bottom middle of the vending machine "dripped" and opened.
The little playmate, who had been groping on the operation panel, lowered himself and crawled into the storage box for a while, and quickly withdrew.
Seeing the little playmate climbing a little, Cao's mother's son, who did not think anything, also began to climb into the storage box of the vending machine. And the little playmates? He didn't realize the seriousness of the matter at all, thinking that he was just playing games with friends at the amusement facilities.
Surveillance cameras recorded a scene in which the playmate outside the door saw the boy who climbed into the box and wanted to push the door open and climb out, and he wanted to push the door back. Two men pushed and shoved against the door of the locker. With a click, the cabinet door was locked.
Cao's mother's son was scared and wanted to come out, so he could only slap the locker door. The little playmate outside the door wanted to open the door, but found that it could not be opened, and also panicked.
Subsequently, Ms. Cao, who came to the unit building to find her son, saw a scene that often appeared in horror movies: her son was stuffed in a small enclosed space and could not move! A face of fear, collapse and crying appeared in the transparent storage box. The little hand slapped the cabinet door weakly, trying to call for help and come out.
The child's mother was also shocked to see her son trapped in the sealed space, and she was at a loss. Passing residents saw that the child was locked in, and they tried to scan the code on the mobile phone and help open the locker.
Time passes minute by minute... The 6-year-old boy had been tucked into the narrow cabinet door for 9 minutes. Facing a circle of adults who rescued but failed outside the cabinet door, the child kept wiping his tears with his hands.
After the property management of the community received the emergency news, it brought a crowbar. After some forced prying of the cabinet, the child escaped safely.
But the storm has not stopped completely. Normal people are trapped in a small, enclosed space, unable to exert their bodies, and do not know when they will be rescued, they will have some panic disorder reactions, not to mention children.
Cao's mother found that her son was extremely traumatized after being stuffed into the storage box, and he would wake up in sleep. Go to the hospital for identification, and the examination report shows that the child's EEG is abnormal.
Parents who got the inspection report could not stand it any longer. If there is no such vending machine in the public area, can your children have such a safety hazard? Are there no loopholes in the manufacturer's design?
In a fit of anger, parents proposed 1 million yuan in compensation for the moral loss of the community property management and automatic vending machine manufacturers!
Don't be afraid of bear children, be afraid of bear parents!
For a time, the property management and manufacturers of the community were implicated. Without surveillance video testimony, in front of angry parents, even if they are full of mouths, they can't explain it.
Obviously, one child locked up another child in it, but it became the fault of the manufacturer.
Who told you to produce such an automated vending machine?
Obviously, it is two ignorant little boys playing around, and the accident that accidentally plays big has become the fault of the community property management.
Who told you to put this kind of facility in a public place?
Observing the results of the safety accident, you can see that the parents are "bears" and not "bears"!
A child kicked left and right at the vending machine, climbed in and was locked by his companions. One child saw the boy push the cabinet door out of the process of climbing out, and deliberately competed with him, pushing the door shut.
We can't ask our two children to be sensible and take responsibility for themselves. After all, they are too young!
It is the parents who do not educate well: the ordinary facilities in public places are not the toys of amusement parks! You can't see the "still life that can't move", just touch and move, kick a few feet. Destruction is compensation!
It is the parents who do not educate well: play needs to be moderate! This time the accident occurred at a transparent machine cabinet. The next time may be the fountain in the community, artificial lake.
The accident has already occurred, how to do the child's follow-up education work? Is it reassurance or scolding? Is it education or throwing the pot?
What about the little boy who locks people in the cupboard? If a huge financial dispute arises, the guardian is required by law to be held responsible. Will his parents be hysterical and let him leave a similar psychological shadow in his crying?
The "bear behavior" of bear children outside is a microcosm of life at home
It is precisely because parents usually neglect education that they do not stop their children's wrong behavior. Young children take the "bad habits" they develop at home to the outside.
Anyway, at home, once the child is not met, when he loses his temper, he wants to drop something, and kicks something if he wants to.
Anyway, at home, if the child wants to achieve the goal, he will do everything in his power to let the adults give in first. Whether it's crying, lying still on the ground, or deliberately doing it, there's always a good way to do it.
Over time, all kinds of bad habits are like a small grass, slowly taking root in the child's subconscious.
When they arrived at relatives' homes, the child was not raised by his parents to the concept of "property rights". When you see something new in a relative's house, you have to touch it or ask to take it away.
Some children even showed: Things are not sent to me? Then break it and go!
Outside, children are not cultivated by their parents to have a sense of "respect" and believe that everyone should "give in" to themselves.
If you see someone sitting on the outdoor facility they want to play, many children can go over with a straight face, give orders, and ask each other to let themselves play.
Every bear child, at home what "overlord look", go out what it looks like.
People now are not afraid of encountering bear children, and they are most afraid of encountering parents who do not know what to do. Obviously, his own children caused trouble, and they also bit back at others. In such a family education, children's ideological concepts and behaviors will become more and more crooked!
As a dad of three, I remembered a news story I had seen before.
When queuing up for nucleic acid testing, a cute baby who was too tired and thirsty found that the adult at the front of the line was carrying a bag of milk tea with an opened bag and a straw in his hand. She didn't think about it, and she reached out and stole it.
Because the scene is too funny, the cute baby who stole milk tea was also filmed on the spot.
Children can not understand things, but adults must understand things! Afterwards, Meng Wa's mother took the child to apologize to the family.
Meng Wa carried the milk tea in her hand and walked towards the adult trembling. The child was too young, carrying a heavy milk tea, one was unsteady, and fell to his knees with a grunt.
The adults present could not hold back, laughed out, and quickly said: No need for such a big gift! The scene is warm and kind, and it will not leave a psychological shadow on the child.
Such family education is the fundamental way to put an end to the phenomenon of "bear children" and "bear parents"!
Dr.X said
Bear children are not terrible, because under the correct education, most bear children can have a certain consciousness after they grow up and understand things. Innocuous things that can pass. The cost of the tragic event, reflect on it. But the truly terrible "bear parents" are the more terrible beings in this society, completely harming the next generation!