Recently, during the kindergarten season, many mothers complained in the group:
"My family refuses to take a nap in kindergarten and keeps crying, fearing that other children will be treated differently."
"My baby just doesn't want to sleep and loves to talk."
Some mothers said, "My baby doesn't want to sleep, is afraid of criticism from the teacher, and hides in the quilt to sneak away tears."
Yes, the baby we hold in the palm of our hands at home, the key is that they are only 3 or 4 years old with limited adaptability, and they will threaten, scare and even beat the baby when they encounter an immoral teacher.
Xiao Zhang of the same bao mom group has recently been worried, because she said that her 3-year-old baby, who has just been sent to kindergarten these days, cries every day, because the child does not have the habit of napping at home, the teacher said that the child has been talking and playing at noon and does not sleep, very helpless, the teacher coaxed other children to sleep, took him to another room to play with him.
Although the teacher did not say it explicitly, she obviously felt that the child was unhappy, and the teacher was also helpless, after all, there were more than 20 children in a class, just two teachers, a large group of children nap also needed to be taken care of, the teacher inadvertently advanced, let them communicate with the child to cultivate nap habits early.
Another mother said that she picked up a big melon, and this year she picked and chose to report a private kindergarten to her child, 1500 yuan a month, although the environment is not so good, but the teacher is particularly good, especially the small class teacher is particularly inclusive. A class of 25 children, equipped with 3 teachers.
At first, she was also worried that the child would not sleep, cry, and not go to the toilet, but after a week of school, the child came back every day to be happy and never wet his pants.
She asked if the child had gone to bed at noon? The child said that sleeping in kindergarten is different from at home, there are many people, but the teacher will hold, accompany, and coax. Every once in a while the teacher would tell them to go to the bathroom.
Many mothers lament that it is a blessing for children to meet such teachers, patient, responsible, and tolerant of children. But not every child is lucky, so it is necessary to develop children's nap habits.
Because napping is not only a kindergarten regulation, but also a code of conduct for children to step into society, it not only has an impact on the recovery of children's physical strength and energy, but also affects brain development.
Later, I saw the video and pictures sent by the teacher, 3 teachers guarded 25 children at noon, some of them did not sleep steadily, and they also needed the teacher to hold and coax, and the little ones slept sweetly in the arms of the teacher.
If your baby also has the habit of napping, I hope to try the following 3 methods:
1. Actively communicate with teachers
If the child does not have the habit of napping, or needs to be coaxed to sleep, parents can explain the situation to the teacher in advance, and ask the teacher to help pay attention to it, such as letting him lie on the bed and rest quietly for a while, as long as it does not disturb other children, it is OK, the baby situation of the small class is more, so parents do not be embarrassed, I believe the teacher can also understand.
Second, give the child a placating object
If the child has a comforter that he particularly likes, he can take it to school and let the child hold it during the nap, so that he feels more secure and intimate. Give your child some time to adjust to kindergarten life.
Third, help your child adjust as soon as possible
Every day, go home and communicate with the child more, understand what happened in the kindergarten, let the child understand that although the parents are not around at noon, they love him as much as they do, and encourage him to integrate into the collective life.
On weekends, according to the kindergarten schedule, let the child sleep at the point, generally after 20 days, the child will gradually develop sleep habits.
Parents should not be too anxious, after all, the baby has a process of adaptation to kindergarten, we must believe in the child, but also believe in the teacher, insist on a period of time to believe that the child will give us a perfect answer.