For the impression of childbirth, ten of the ten women said that the pain, it is true that the delivery process is indeed painful, and women who have endured the entire pregnancy from pregnancy to childbirth are under great psychological and physical pressure. But the pain of childbirth is widely publicized, and there is a feeling that is secretly "hidden" by the mother, and even the closest husband is ashamed to talk about it, unlike the pain, this feeling can be described as "sour to the extreme" for the long-suppressed body.
After giving birth, I chatted with my pregnant friends, talked about the pain of constipation during pregnancy, and secretly told her a secret that was treasured in her heart
Kirito had just been discharged home after giving birth, and she was so bored that she often called a friend who was still pregnant to chat at home and share her pregnancy experience and some precautions with her.
Friends said that recently she was deeply troubled by constipation, felt particularly uncomfortable every day, and almost devoted her time to the toilet, but she did not alleviate it at all, and the stomach blockage was particularly uncomfortable. Kirito listened to the little secret of her childbirth secretly told her friends, she said that giving birth to a child is said to be painful, but the moment the child is born, it feels like constipation has been unblocked for a long time, the feeling is simply painful and refreshing, the body is instantly relaxed, and now that feeling feels very comfortable in retrospect.
Friends on the side of listening to the face of doubt, heard others say that giving birth to a child is painful, how to give birth to a child can still have a "cool" feeling? And how can having a baby be the same as "defecating"?
In fact, not only TongTong, many women will have this feeling after giving birth, and whether it is a vaginal birth or a caesarean section, in addition to the pain caused to the body by their respective delivery methods, they do have their own comforts.
We all know that normal delivery requires the efforts of the pregnant mother herself, and through the doctor's command and assistance, the mother holds her breath and exerts force to promote the delivery of the fetus as soon as possible during the second stage of labor. But this process also compresses the rectum and perianal area, creating a feeling of effort to "defecate." After the fetus is born, this sense of oppression disappears, and it is natural to feel that the body is unblocked at once, which is simply "painful and happy".
For women with caesarean section, the caesarean section surgical process will affect the intestine, resulting in slow peristalsis, coupled with the role of the anesthetic before the operation, the mother's intestinal function will be greatly limited after the operation, and there will be flatulence after the birth. In this case, the mother is not able to eat, in order to restore intestinal function as soon as possible, the mother needs to exhaust. But the process of waiting for exhaust is also very difficult, because the knife edge pain can not be forced but can only wait quietly, feel the gas in the intestine to move around is not discharged, and the waiting process is long or short, when with the exhaust sound finally successfully discharged the gas, although some embarrassment, but the feeling is also very comfortable.
In fact, these "sour" feelings can also bring a little comfort to women who have experienced labor pain, but in any case, the most important thing for women to pay attention to is to actively maintain their bodies after childbirth, so that the body can return to the best level as soon as possible.
For women who have a normal birth, the postpartum body can recover as soon as possible, and the pregnant mother is not much restricted in diet and action, so she relaxes her vigilance, to know that there are more dietary restrictions after childbirth, although there is a need for certain nutritional supplements, but the meaty things try not to eat too much, so as not to block the milk. At the same time, we should pay more attention to rest after childbirth, because the body has experienced childbirth like a big change around the body, and the surface seems to be nothing, but in fact, the damage suffered by the body is very large and needs good maintenance.
For women who have been born by caesarean section, the postpartum knife pain combined with contractions makes the mother just want to lie in bed, because the sharp pain when getting up and the feeling of dizziness are too uncomfortable. However, pregnant women must remember not to get out of bed and walk because of pain, proper activity is conducive to faster recovery of the body and prevent intestinal adhesions.
I believe that most women will find that the postpartum period is the concentrated period of family conflicts, and the little unhappiness experienced at this time will break their psychological defense line, in fact, whether it is pregnancy or postpartum is a critical period of women's emotions, especially the sudden decline in hormone levels in the postpartum body, and women will have mild postpartum depression. At this time, the help of the family is very important, and the mother herself must also strive to get rid of bad emotions and not become a slave to emotions.
The most important point is to scientific maintenance, not only to be familiar with themselves but also to give the family the correct "practice" of some postpartum things, so that they can suffer less, such as not washing their hair after childbirth and not eating vegetables and other wrong methods, so that they can also make postpartum recovery better, and the maternal mood can also remain stable, not to focus on the "pain" of childbirth, so that they feel more comfortable.
There are many "little secrets" of mothers, in fact, from pregnancy to childbirth, which contains too much bitterness, bittersweetness, women are the witnesses of this process, the taste has also been tasted, the birth process and the parenting process are highlighting the greatness of a mother, every mother is working hard for her children, it is with these richer experiences that mother's love has a more comprehensive play.