Before giving birth to a baby, or just after the baby was born, new mothers have struggled with this problem, right?
If you are busy, or do you want to go to the Confinement Club? Or please sister-in-law?
After all, no matter whether you were a strong woman who was proficient in eighteen martial arts before, or a bully mother who had already read the original version of the "American Academy of Pediatrics Parenting Encyclopedia", when faced with this little person who cried to the earth and was so weak and needed all kinds of care, she would be busy and chaotic, looking around and just wanting to move the rescue troops.
Faced with the "situation" that children have not thought about after birth, mothers will think of "leaving professional things to professional people to do."
After all, the mother is the first time to be a mother, and the sister-in-law and the confinement club are "professional mothers"!
But can "professional" really replace "mom"?
To talk about physiological care, there is no doubt that the qualified confinement club and the confinement sister-in-law are more skilled.
The parenting techniques that make new mothers a question mark, they have their hands on it. In the face of these professional operations, it is easy for the mother to sigh to herself, and then give the initiative of parenting to the sister-in-law and the nursery.
However, if you know how to consider the psychological needs of your baby, mothers may be more confident.
Do babies necessarily need such a professional?
In fact, in order to come to this strange world, the babies have secretly made a lot of indirect preparations!
For example, the voice of Mom and Dad – although they can't fully hear it, they are already familiar with Mom and Dad's voice intonation! And the emotional feelings combined with these voice tones, the child has also experienced through the hormonal changes in the mother's body; the mother's eating habits, the taste of the food, the child has also been exposed to when the mother's stomach.
Therefore, when the child comes to this strange world, he already has a lot of past experience as a reference point. And these reference points are closely related to the mother. If, after the birth of a child, he hastily cut off the connection between the child and the mother, it is like depriving him of his basic foothold in this world, and it may make him confused.
The truly professional confinement club and the confinement sister-in-law know how to assist Bao Ma to be qualified for the new role of "Mother", rather than completely replacing Bao Ma. Recuperation is an important need of mothers after childbirth, but we also need to take care of the baby's psychological needs!
Therefore, the mothers do not need to be "instigated" in front of the "professional", you know, we are the ones that children need the most and worry about the most!