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Postpartum confinement, for the mothers who have just unloaded the goods, is a top priority to pay special attention. In the past, most of them were mother-in-law or mother-in-law waiting for confinement. And now, with the emergence of confinement centers and confinement clubs, many families have begun to choose this novel paid service.
No, just now, my aunt sent a WeChat message, saying that her daughter-in-law had recently made a fuss about going to the confinement center, and she really didn't know how to persuade her. The family is not unattended, why do you have to spend the money unjustly.
Surprised, I asked, "Aren't you still alive?" I remember I was only 5 months pregnant! My aunt sighed helplessly and said, "She also heard the little sister say that the confinement center is so much better, ask people to ask for contact information, consult several, to book in advance!" ”
Alas, I really don't have much to say about this kind of housework that is difficult for officials to break. But coincidentally, in the morning, I brushed a hot search about the confinement club.
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A father spent 37,000 yuan to send his wife and children to a confinement club. I thought that there were more high-end professionals there, and that wives and children could get better care, but what happened was wrong.
The sister-in-law carried the baby's leg to change the diaper, and threw the little one who had just been born 17 days to the ground. The little guy's head was smashed to the ground, his face was purple, and he had eaten bugs more than once during the confinement meal.
In response to these problems, the reply of the relevant personnel of the Confinement Club is also quite ridiculous: the child was not dropped, but when the sister-in-law rubbed the oil, she slid down her leg, and the examination results were very healthy.
When Bao Dad asked for compensation of 60,000 yuan, the person in charge said that he could do VIP membership, let the children swim in the confinement clubhouse, and then compensate 3,000 yuan; as for the insects eaten in the confinement meal, the staff actually teasingly congratulated Bao Ma on winning the lottery again...
Sigh, that's a big surprise. When it comes to publicity, I exaggerate myself. What high-end service quality, professional scientific care, avoiding the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, etc., each pokes at the pain points of the mothers. However, after moving in, once there is a problem, immediately avoid the heavy and shirk the responsibility.
When I heard this news, my aunt said that this is not spending money to buy guilt, fortunately the child is fine, otherwise the family will regret dying!
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Presumably seeing this news, many pregnant mothers will also cluck in their hearts, entangled in whether to live in the confinement center.
The reason why the confinement center is popular is definitely because of its benefits. such as:
Avoiding the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is conducive to family harmony
After giving birth to a child, the mother's psychology is often in a relatively fragile period.
Their mood will be particularly low and they will become very sensitive. The words spoken inadvertently by the family members will be remembered in their hearts, thinking wildly, and crying in tears. If the mother-in-law says more serious words, then the feud may be over. Once the bane is planted, it is impossible to want family harmony.
Let Bao Ma's body get a better recovery
In addition to providing six confinement meals a day, washing the mother's clothes, and doing postpartum rehabilitation (most of which cost a fee), the confinement center is also responsible for the centralized care of the children.
The nursery there bathes the baby, changes the diaper, takes care of the navel, measures jaundice, applies eczema cream, and sleeps. Only when the child is hungry, he will hold it and feed the mother. In this way, Bao Ma can not only eat nutritiously, but also sleep well, and her body can naturally be restored.
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The benefits of living in confinement centers are visible to the naked eye, but the drawbacks cannot be ignored:
Poor sense of experience, service does not meet the advertised
As more and more people target the group of pregnant women, the confinement center is also a mixture of fish and dragons. Whether it is 20,000 or 30,000, or 70,000 or 80,000 confinement centers, there will be a situation where publicity is far greater than experience.
The confinement meal is not clean, the nursery is not professional, there is no doctor... These will pose a safety hazard for both moms and babies.
In addition, after sitting in the confinement center, the mothers who are waiting for them after returning home may be helpless. You need to re-explore your baby's sleep patterns and understand its various signals and needs.
Blindly comparing, creating a burden on the family
Whether or not to live in the confinement center depends on the economic situation of your family. Don't go there because of blind comparison and disregard the heavy financial burden of the family. I really don't feel at ease, we can ask a sister-in-law to help bring the baby.
If the family conditions are average, let's not force us to say", "If you don't let me go, you just don't love me." This is the time to test Daddy. In many families, it is generally matched like this: the mother-in-law is responsible for cooking, the husband is responsible for changing the diaper, and the mother does not have to do anything except breastfeeding... Couples take care of their children together, which can enhance their feelings!
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