You may not believe that a child's excellent life comes from the independence of their parents. In the society we live in, the traditional concept of raising children and preventing the elderly has been deeply rooted, if you work outside the home for many years as a child, not only are your parents insecure, but even neighbors will scold you for being filial piety, selfish, and self-interested.
This is the psychological burden of our hard work outside, and I think only people who can't go home for many years have feelings.
My uncle was a very good people's teacher, and when he was young, he made a group of good friends because of his good academic performance and righteousness. One of them is a very good friend, his parents work in the education department, and he has a strong relationship that allows his uncle to stay, and the future is very good.
But because the concept of raising children and preventing old age is deeply rooted in the hearts of the people, Grandpa was very angry and told his uncle that you must come back, and the family affairs cannot be regretted. His uncle, who had been obedient since childhood, returned home with tears in his eyes, gave up his splendid future, married his wife and had children, and insisted on the cause of education in the countryside.
Uncle's original excellent future, just this concept of raising children and preventing old age, was ruined! In fact, looking for the roots, this stems from the lack of independence of the parents, and they cannot have enough life security for their future.
As Ding Yuanying mentioned in "Heavenly Dao", the greatness of maternal love is precisely because of selflessness, if it is said that raising children is to prevent aging, it has become an investment and a guarantee for the future.
If this is the case, then it becomes an exchange, and will that kind of maternal love still be great?
In fact, not asking for returns does not mean that the child is not filial piety, regardless of you, on the contrary, the child will become more independent and loving.
Many times, some parents often make unreasonable demands and cannot understand their children's difficulties.
Children work hard outside, often stay up late and work overtime, and have a meager income when they just graduated, which is the key moment of the rising period.
Many parents, because of loneliness, ask how often their children must return home.
Many parents, because of financial difficulties, require their children to send money home every month.
What's more, as the eldest son and eldest daughter, they also have to bear the dowry of their brother's family and the heavy responsibility of buying a house.
Many people have a miserable life, are burdened when they take off, and lack sufficient funds when it is time for further study. In the end, I am not yet able to honor my parents.
Conclusion: The excellent life of a child comes from the independence of his parents and from the untiedness of his parents. Although this is the result of the influence of traditional weak cultures, it has deprived many people of better development opportunities, and the cycle of reciprocation has not been able to emerge from generation to generation.
In addition to watching TV series, you can also read the original "Distant Savior", although "Heavenly Road" has been very exciting, but it is a deleted version, the storyline in the original is more comprehensive, and the wisdom contained in the original is more convenient for everyone to understand.