Jackie Chan is a very common social phenomenon, children have all the hopes of their parents, limited by life, many parents can not achieve the dream of getting ahead, and instead transfer this expectation to the child.
This is the innate commonality of many parents, no parents do not want their children to be good, it is good to have expectations for children, but it is not too much pressure on children, face is important, so that children develop the correct three views is more important.
Parents are the biggest teachers of their children, and their words and values will directly affect the child's growth trajectory.
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On February 15, in Xuyi County, Huai'an City, Jiangsu Province, a man made a splash at a gathering of relatives and friends at a hotel because he had a daughter with great potential, and in just a few months, the number of followers of his daughter had reached 13,500.
Friends who often brush short videos know that this fan is not a thing at all, but in the eyes of this old father, it is a great achievement.
Mentioning the scene of the day, the participants still have some patience, and the gathering of relatives and friends is an occasion for each other to compete, and modern people have long been less simple than they were then.
Man shows his daughter a hot dance video to earn face
Some people drive luxury cars and deliberately put the car keys in a conspicuous place, some people bring children with top academic performance to support the scene, and some people talk during the banquet, inadvertently talking about several big businesses done last year.
Although these people spoke with great modesty, the proud look on their faces revealed the pride in their hearts, and the compliments of others made the current Versailles wave after wave.
Seeing that everyone was complimented, the man could not sit still, he solemnly took out his mobile phone and brushed up the short video, turning the volume to the maximum, and the powerful music instantly attracted the attention of the neighboring seat.
Jiangsu: Men publicly show off their daughters' fans exceeded 10,000
He looked closer, his eyes lit up, and a young girl was scratching her head in the dim light, dancing to the rhythm of the music.
To say that he is also a person who has been in the society for many years, it is not that he has never seen a girl dance, but such a hot action is indeed unprecedented.
Others also saw the change in his face, and ran to see the hilarity, and the man with the mobile phone was quite satisfied with the reaction of relatives and friends, and he said proudly, "This is her (daughter), her fans are broken!" ”
After seeing the picture, the daughter was ashamed of herself
Hearing this answer, everyone's face showed an unbelievable look, for a while they didn't know what to say, and finally they could only throw out a few painless praises: "Dancing well, promising, capable..."
Watching everyone thoughtfully walk back to their seats, the smile on the man's face became brighter and brighter, which can be regarded as earning some face.
Compared with the man's satisfaction, the daughter who was squeezed outside was ashamed of herself, looking at her face that was blue and red, everyone felt a little embarrassed, but this old father was completely unaware...
Children become a pendulum tool
To be fair, the phenomenon of showing children is not uncommon in society, which is also one of the greatest pleasures of parents, as the saying goes, people fight for a breath, Buddhas fight for incense, and they all want their children to suppress others.
Yes, what person doesn't love face? But face is earned by strength, not by eyeballs to attract attention, dancing is a kind of strength, but it is by no means a scratching posture.
This man is really incomparable, and it is really incomprehensible to actually support the scene with his daughter's hot dance video.
Instead of fighting for face in this way, it is better to spend more time in the growth stage of your daughter, lay a good foundation for your child, and give your child enough support to let your child soar.
Unfortunately, many parents are unaware of this, they have been muddy all their lives, but they require their children to compete with the best of their peers, and it is difficult for strong people to be self-righteous, and it is the sadness of children to meet such parents.
Over the years, more and more fearful returnees are unable to stand the comparison of their parents to keep the rental house alone, they are not motivated but ask their children to make face, and they have lived most of their lives to understand, long snacks.