Hello everyone, I'm a big brother! Yesterday and the parents talked about what rules to make for the child, many parents backstage message feel that the big brother said very reasonable, some of the concepts are also implemented before, but the child does not comply with many times, blindly accommodating the child is more and more arrogant, sometimes angry, just a fat beating, but after scolding themselves feel pain, the child does not see any change, then today the big strong will share a few do not scold the child, but also let the child long memory, understand the lesson of the punishment method.
1. Penalty station
Speaking of penalty stations is probably the most common way used by everyone, and big brothers often use this trick. For example, if you want to overcome the problem of procrastination and rubbing, make an appointment with the child in advance, go to the bathroom at 9:30 on time to prepare for washing, remind three times when the time comes, wait for the child to look at it again, a few minutes late, let the child stand in the bathroom wall for a few minutes. Ready to go out, agree to go out at 8 o'clock, if the child is dressed or other rubbing, the same timer, a few minutes late penalty stand for a few minutes.
When the penalty station is to explain to the child why to punish him, how to avoid being punished next time, because the consequences of being late for the penalty station also need to be borne by the child himself, after using it a few times, the child will realize that he cannot make a mistake, and he must also bear the consequences of making a mistake.
Second, the penalty is to eat
Of course, it is not a punishment for children to eat, if your child has a partial food problem, then this trick will work. If the child makes a mistake, he will be punished for eating things he does not like to eat, vegetables, meat, fruits, etc., which not only supplement nutrition, but also have a certain deterrent effect on the child.
Third, the penalty is not to speak
This trick is more effective for the whole chattering children, and the children of the big brothers are like this, and they can't finish talking nonsense every day. Then if he makes a mistake, he is forbidden to speak for long, or not to communicate with him during this time.
Fourth, fines for housework
Many children are reluctant to do housework, then this punishment will also be very effective, while doing housework can also exercise the child's hands-on ability and self-care ability.
5. Penalty movement
The benefits of using exercise as a means of punishment are even greater, helping children to exercise and strengthen their willpower.
Finally, the big brother wants to say that punishment is only a means, and giving the child enough patience and love to help the child gradually set easy-to-achieve goals is the most important.
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