In a relationship, when two people drift apart, they are destined to separate.
When a woman gives up most on her feelings, it is not bitterness, but silence. For a woman, the most desperate state is silence.
In fact, the leaves of the tree will not turn yellow overnight, and a woman's heart will not turn cold all at once. It's because over time, I've accumulated enough disappointment in my relationship, so I gradually give up.
For example, men have been neglecting and not caring for a long time. They only ask for things but don't give. They think that there are things that women should take for granted and just shirk their responsibilities.
And if a woman does not get the care and understanding of a man for a long time, even if she loves someone again, there will be sunny days.
So, as soon as a woman becomes silent and no longer argues, it means that she has given up on you. If you love someone so much that you can't love anymore, they will turn a blind eye to you and become silent about you. This is the highest state that a woman can give up her true heart.
1. When she no longer messages you or contacts you.
When a woman is completely hopeless about her feelings, she will turn a blind eye to you and no longer care about you. She will never message you or contact you again. She just wants to withdraw from your world and has given up any hope for you.
Before, she was very warm to you, worked for your welfare, was always there for you, took care of you like an old mother, but you never really cared about her, and you didn't know what she wanted, and you kept ignoring her. feelings, so she doesn't get a response from you for a long time and feels that you don't love her, so she gives up and doesn't want to love you anymore.
When a woman gives up, all that remains is indifference. Because she wants to take back her passion for you, take back her love for you, stop giving, stop pleasing and stop trying to please, leave quietly and not think about you. This is the highest level of a woman's renunciation.
2. When she no longer cares about your schedule and doesn't care where you go.
In a relationship, if a woman cares about you, she usually asks about your schedule. She will ask you where you went on a business trip, where you went to work, where you went to socialize, etc., and may even ask you when you will be back and what time you will be home.
This is when a woman cares about your performance and loves you, so she will be possessive and want to know everything about you.
One day, however, she stopped asking about you. It must have been something you did to be sorry for her, or you had someone outside who let her know about it. So, she gave up on you and gave up on the relationship. Silence descended.
Maybe she will forgive you once, but not many times. When she forgives you again and again, she still can't see your changes, still knows that you can't let go of the temptations of the outside world, and still knows that you are entangled with others and have no boundaries.
Then she didn't want to wait. The most taboo thing in a relationship is to spend all your youth on a person who cannot grow up, and a person who does not know how to repent.
So, when a woman gives up, she stops interfering and then proposes to break up. Since you like to indulge yourself so much, then she will give you freedom, out of sight and out of mind, not wanting to worry about you, not wanting to care about you, nothing to do with you. Expectation.
Once a woman wakes up, she doesn't look back.
3. When she decides to leave you and no longer rely on you.
An issue of "Dear Enemy" touches on the topic of "If Your Wife Leaves You". It talks about a couple. The wife decided to file for divorce, but the husband did not want to divorce and the wife filed for divorce.
Before going to court, the husband brought a bouquet of flowers and begged his wife for forgiveness, but the wife refused to divorce, so the man lost his temper, threw the flowers on the ground, and then yelled.
The wife's lawyer also found out why the wife insisted on the divorce. It turned out that this man had never been able to control his emotions. He had no patience at all. He was always jealous, always suspected that his wife had betrayed him, and lost his temper at every turn. No wonder the wife was already disappointed enough in the marriage and decided to leave.
When a woman is no longer dependent on a man and no longer has expectations, it means that the woman has given up.
When one day, as her closest pillow person, suddenly wants to leave you and stay away from you, it means that she did not give up overnight, but decided to give up after being fed up with grievances.
The woman feels that she will be fine even if she leaves you, so she is no longer dependent on you and does not want to look back. From then on, she will be a stranger.
In short, if you don't know how to cherish the relationship, if you don't understand and support each other, if you don't tolerate and accommodate, and only care about your own feelings, then the enthusiastic party will gradually become the indifferent party. The heart is cold, and the enthusiasm is no longer there.
When a woman gives up, the highest level is to remain silent. As the saying goes, as soon as you turn around and leave, you'll never see you again.