We all know that the love of parents for their children is the most selfless love, in order to be able to provide good living conditions for their children, many parents would rather eat and wear a little worse than suffer their children.
In addition, almost all parents hope to be able to stay with their children and witness their healthy growth.
However, sometimes the difficulties of life in front of us make us have to make difficult choices. If you keep your child, you can't make money, and you can't go out to make money and you can't accompany your child. It seems that no matter how you choose, it is not the best answer, but you have to make a choice.
In particular, many rural families generally have poor family conditions, in order to be able to improve the living conditions of the family and be able to provide for their children to go to school, parents have to choose to leave their hometowns and work hard in other places, in order to be able to earn more money and give their children a better life.
However, making such a choice means that you can't always be with your child, and your child will suffer from missing your parents.
When I learned that my mother was going out to work, the two children were crying in tears in the nest: I don't want money, you don't want to leave
In the early morning, before the sky was very bright, Zhang Li (pseudonym) had already gotten up, washed up, packed her bags and prepared to go out to work.
Zhang Li has two children, a son and a daughter. Before leaving, Zhang Li wanted to say goodbye to her two children. I thought that the child was still asleep, who had thought that the two children had already woken up, but they just didn't want Zhang Li to find out.
After seeing the children wake up, Zhang Li left them 50 yuan to buy snacks to eat, and then said that she was leaving.
Unexpectedly, the two children instantly cried into tears, they did not want their mother to leave them, they would rather not eat snacks and hope that their mother could stay.
"I don't want the money, you don't want to go!" The children cried out loud.
After hearing the cries of the two children, Zhang Li's own emotions could not be controlled, and the tears also flowed down.
Zhang Li naturally did not want her children, but if she did not go out to work, the family's economic conditions were too poor, she did not want the children to suffer with her, nor did she want the children to worry about tuition and living expenses in the future.
Therefore, despite all kinds of reluctance, Zhang Li still decided to go out and make some money, while she was still young, and save more money for her children, otherwise the children would suffer more in the future.
For Zhang Li's choice, netizens have different views.
Some people think that even if they go out to work, they can take their children with them, although the conditions are a little difficult, but the children can feel the love of their parents and have a complete and healthy childhood.
However, some people think that if you take your children with you, it is difficult to concentrate on work. You need to worry about your child's affairs a lot. Moreover, the general living conditions of migrant workers are very difficult, even worse than rural hometowns, this kind of suffering adults may be able to bear, but for children, let them grow up in such an environment, may not be a good thing.
In real life, there are too many people and Zhang Li who have similar experiences, in order to earn money to support their families, they have to leave their homes and leave their children in their hometowns to be raised by the elderly.
It's not that they don't want to take their children with them, it's just that they have no place to live, and they probably need to go out to find a job temporarily, otherwise they won't have a place to live and no money to eat.
Many migrant workers do not have a stable job, where there is a need to work wherever they are needed, so many of them can not give their children a stable home, so under comprehensive weighing, it is more reassuring to put their children in their hometowns and be cared for by the elderly.
If conditions permit, who does not want their children to be around, who does not want to watch their children grow up, but life is not full of too much helplessness?