Give people roses, hand left incense, know how to share with others is a good thing, sharing is also a kind of happiness, especially children, from a young age parents should let children learn to share, so that children can have more friends, learn to trust, create a harmonious atmosphere, happy and healthy growth, but parents want their children to learn to share, not blindly sharing.
A 7-year-old boy in Suzhou took more than 20,000 yuan to the school, to the teachers and classmates one by one to send red envelopes caused a heated discussion among netizens, personally believe that this matter can not be seen from the perspective of adults, children do not make mistakes, the main responsibility lies in the parents, if the parents supervise in place, guide education to do a good job, such a thing will not happen.
First of all, children know how to share, is a very good behavior, starting from the child's kindergarten, whether it is a parent, or a teacher, will pay special attention to the child's sense of sharing, such as kindergartens often hold birthday parties for children, teachers guide children to share the cake to other children, that is, let children learn to share, know how to get along with others, and kindergartens will hold some sharing activities from time to time, so that parents can prepare some small snacks for children, children exchange and share with each other, these are guiding children to learn to share, They are all very good ways of education, so from the perspective of sharing, this elementary school student is not wrong, he has learned to share and likes to share happiness with others.
Secondly, the child's world is different from adults, children are lively by nature, full of curiosity about various things, see what, want to learn, such as the New Year red envelope, many parents will guide children to the elders to pay homage to the elders to ask for red envelopes, go to relatives, relatives to send red envelopes to children, and even parents themselves take the initiative to arrange red envelopes for children, ear to ear, children will be more curious about the red envelope, feel fun, more interesting, will think that sending red envelopes is a very happy thing, I want to share the joy of sending red envelopes with others.
During the New Year, I personally experienced such behavior, a relative had a child, and when her mother sent him a red envelope, she took the initiative to ask: Mom, can you send one to my good friend? Hearing this sentence, the child's mother was stunned at that time, and then laughed a little, perfunctory past, so the child did things, there was no idea, very simple, is to feel happy, so don't think that the child is showing off the wealth, there is no existence, because the child's world is very pure, do not have to read too much, so just say that the red envelope, the child is not wrong.
Finally, the reason why this primary school student can carry more than 20,000 yuan of cash to the school, is completely the parents' carelessness, supervision is not in place, if the parents of the money management is very good, there will be no such situation, take this primary school student, where does the money come from, afterwards the child said that more than 20,000 yuan is his and his sister's New Year's pressure money, there is also part of the family's money, if the parents of primary school students manage these money in time, it will not happen that the child will take more than 20,000 yuan to the school, give the teachers and classmates a red envelope one by one, So this matter is wrong in the parents, not in the children, belongs to the family education problems, caused by the results.
Therefore, parents must learn to guide their children, to teach by example, take the matter of sharing, children know how to share is definitely a good thing, but parents have not noticed the consequences of blind sharing, if this Suzhou primary school student really sent more than 20,000 yuan to the teacher and classmates what to do? Although it is okay to make up for the dead sheep, it is very troublesome to deal with afterwards, especially the part of the red packet issued to the classmates, it is difficult to retrieve it, because the child does not know the size of the red packet at all, but this matter is fortunately prevented by the teacher!
Personally, I think that after the fact, the child's parents performed very well, did not blame the child, took the initiative to realize that it was their own carelessness, understood that the child was just a generous personality to share, and said that they wanted to guide and educate the child, so that the parents were very good, the problem was rational, organized, and worth learning, so parents, usually educate the child to work harder, be careful, guide well, once the child makes a mistake, do not deal with it rudely, look at the problem from a different angle, and think about the reasons behind it.