If the most popular person in the recent period is who, I believe that Gu Ailing, the frequency of being mentioned, must be the highest.
In this winter Olympic arena, Gu Ailing was called a talented athlete and won one gold medal after another.
Presumably, as a parent, you will be extremely envious and look forward to seeing other people's children so excellent.
However, when you understand the story behind Gu Ailing's gold medal, it will also make you reflect more.
Gu Ailing's life is enviable, and the achievements he has achieved are also expected.
However, standing at a higher starting point, it is far easier for her to achieve such strong results than ordinary children.
Gu Ailing, standing on the shoulders of giants, many netizens saw her success, but also called it someone else's child, reflecting on the mediocrity of their own children, but also made parents sigh.
However, most children are born in ordinary families, from ordinary beginnings, and do not have such a strong advantage.
After all, children with these characteristics account for the majority, but if you want to make them also have a shining future and performance, in daily education, the following points are the most important points that parents should not ignore.
[Starting from ordinary children, these are the key points that cannot be ignored in education]
1. Cultivation of thinking ability
For children with ordinary starting points, from small to large, parents must remember not to focus too much on the results, and must pay attention to the cultivation of children's thinking ability.
Thinking means strong creative ability, which is also one of the important abilities to get rid of mediocrity and cannot be ignored.
Many children have lost their innovation and ideas under the long-term oppression and discipline of their parents, and they are completely puppets of their parents.
Once children lose their basic thinking ability and ideas, their future life will be extremely mediocre, and it is almost impossible to surpass and become a genius.
2, have the courage and confidence to choose
For children with a relatively low starting point, parents must maintain a more democratic state of education for their children.
The courage of the child's choice is the child's choice, and everything will not develop in the direction expected by the parents.
However, the child's choice must have their considerations and ideas.
As a parent, if even the courage of the child's choice must be deprived, the future child's life can only be followed step by step, and can only repeat the trajectory of the parents' life.
Give children the courage and confidence to re-choose life, and they have the courage to create a different ordinary life.
3. Dare to "pay" for the choice of responsibility
When many parents complain that their children do not have a sense of responsibility, they ignore the cultivation of their children's sense of responsibility from an early age.
The choice is not terrible, and the result may not be satisfactory, but it is admirable to have the courage to pay for the result of your own choice.
Therefore, in the process of children's growth, parents must let them have this courage and responsibility.
This is a valuable asset for children and will make them feel that they have a lasting and powerful impact on their future lives.
4. Learn to manage yourself
For children who start from the ordinary beginning, learning to manage themselves and have a certain degree of self-discipline is very critical.
Plum blossom fragrance from the bitter cold, any success is not achieved overnight, it is necessary to go through long-term accumulation and pay, there will be the last stunning bloom.
If you can't manage yourself well in the long years, if you can't work firmly towards the set goals, everything will become empty talk.
Only by managing your desires and ideas can you grow towards a better self.
And this ability also needs parents to pay attention to and cultivate from an early age, for children, it is very difficult to manage themselves, once they form a habit, it will also make them have a strong binding force on themselves.
5. Maintain an optimistic and cheerful personality
For each child, the starting point is not terrible, and the efforts and environmental influences of the day after tomorrow will make their lives appear in a completely different state.
Every successful person needs to have an optimistic attitude, as the saying goes, failure is the mother of success, only by summarizing experience in continuous failure, can we start towards a better self.
For children with a relatively low starting point, as long as they can have an optimistic and cheerful personality, they will be closer to success.
【Author's Message】
Dostoevsky once said that as long as there is strong willpower, there will naturally be ability, cleverness and knowledge.
After all, ordinary and mediocre children account for the majority, and gifted children can achieve extraordinary lives in the state of their own efforts.
However, for most children with mediocre starting points, if they want to truly become talented, they often face more resistance, and only by starting from the above aspects can we cultivate stronger competitiveness from an early age.
The future life is in the hands of the child, as long as this can be done, the parents give the child, has been very sufficient, as for the child can go to what height of life, the decision is completely in the hands of the child himself.
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