Xie Nan shared such an article on Weibo:
My son once told the swimming coach the little secret that he liked pink, and asked the coach not to tell his grandmother. In fact, this matter is known to the Wu Jing family. Later, Grandma knew that her grandson liked pink as a secret and did not want to tell herself, realized that it might be a bad thing for boys to like pink, and then Grandma talked to her grandson.
Grandma told Wu very seriously: color has no gender attributes, no one stipulates what boys should like, can not like what, you can tell everyone loudly, you like pink, red, pink, blue, black, each color in everyone's heart caused by different feelings, like is only an expression of emotion, different periods of time you will change, no big deal.
I really want to praise such a wise old man. The habitual thinking of adults is that pink represents cuteness that girls like, blue represents bravery that boys like, and involuntarily labels the color with gender. Parents draw a line of gender for boys and girls early on. Let the child lose half of the choice, which is bound to hinder the vision.
Like my family's morning treasure is a girl, dad bought a lot of pink clothes, want to dress the baby as a little princess, the result is now older will choose to express their wishes, every time you take the clothes to her, she always pushes away the pink clothes, the first choice of red wear, pink clothes completely into the cold palace.
Virginia Woolf once said, "Great souls are hermaphrodites." In terms of temperament and charm, it means that men can also have the delicacy and softness of women, and women also have both male strength and courage.
Smart and courageous girls are more likely to become leaders in the group, while delicate boys are more sensitive and often have better creativity! Non-discrimination is the education that is responsible for boys and girls.
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