Prologue: After reading the life path of Gu Ailing, she is indeed outstanding enough.
And thus triggered everyone's lashing for the "chicken baby" education.
However, is Gu Ailing's "life" really worth using on children right away?
No, Gu Ailing's deeds can be used as a reference value, more reflected in making everyone "sober up"...
First, Gu Ailing's family situation, let alone looking at the whole country, looking at the whole world can not find a few such families.
Her parents were all "top-notch Kochi", her father was at Harvard, her mother was in Stanford, and it was said that her grandfather was also Stanford.
Such a family with a background of education cannot find a few in the world.
If nothing else, just from the "genetic" point of view, Gu Ailing has a great probability that he can inherit "high intelligence".
Although this is not 100%, at present, she has indeed inherited this piece.
Because of self-study alone, she was able to get the TOEFL to 1580 out of 1600.
Judging from the "genes", Gu Ailing has already beaten all the invincible hands.
Second, Gu Ailing's mother said that she had never managed Gu Ailing, and she liked to play and learn, all by her.
Many people think that this way of education gives enough children freedom and makes it very healthy for children to grow up with interest.
But few people know, Gu Ailing's mother, Gu Yan, why did she dare to do this?
Gu Yan is actually a mother who is very good at "teaching by example", and she rarely educates Gu Ailing through punishment.
But she has been in front of Gu Ailing, carrying out subtle "education".
This kind of education method is that Gu Yan will fully show Gu Ailing the side of her own life that she strives to live well.
Gu Ailing saw a lot, which directly affected her world view, and naturally had a kind of learning.
Gu Yan, who came from Peking University and Stanford Double Top Stream University, is also very suitable for being such a "life model".
Third, Gu Ailing has a mother as a model for life, and her grasp of the direction of life has an "innate advantage".
Mama Gu Yan is not only extremely educated, but also a ski instructor, which makes Gu Ailing fall in love with skiing is simply "tailor-made".
When Gu Ailing was only two years old, Gu Yan took her to the ski resort to sit and listen to the ski environment.
However, Gu Yan did not just show Gu Ailing skiing, in fact, Gu Yan always tried to let Gu Ailing see everything she loved.
When Gu Ailing watched her mother work hard and enjoyed doing all this, she could not avoid being infected.
Among them, skiing became the most infected her.
Fourth, Gu Yan successfully enriched Gu Ailing's curiosity about the world by finding "points of interest" for Gu Ailing.
In many children who come into contact with playing games and playing mobile phones, what attracts Gu Ailing is a variety of very healthy and challenging things.
For example, playing the piano, long-distance running, skiing, yoga, surfing, ballet, etc., almost everything is done very well.
Why does Gu Ailing have so many hobbies, but she can still take care of them, but it is not at all effortless.
Because she learned a very important ability from her mother Gu Yan, that is, she must be "100% focused" in everything she does.
Fifth, Gu Yan Peking University's undergraduate science is chemistry, and the Stanford master's degree still continues to conduct research in this major.
When she completes her profession, Gu Ailing is the best "bystander", because Gu Yan can forget to invest in one thing.
This incident had a profound impact on Gu Ailing, because she knew very early on that to do one thing should only think about this one thing.
She quickly acquired this ability, and she was able to focus on skiing and other hobbies on the road to growth.
Mama Gu Yan drives every week to drive back 8 hours to take him to the ski slopes for practice.
In the bumpy car, she always took the book to study, did not waste a little time, and was used.
Sixth, efficiency and concentration, so that Gu Ailing can always complete a lot of things in one day.
The happiness obtained from it brought Gu Ailing greater positive feedback, and she absorbed more and more learning energy.
Coupled with the challenging sport of skiing, she also has a strong ability to conquer the difficulties of learning.
This made her an underage, and she had grown into a "hexagonal warrior" on the road of life.
Mother Gu Yan said that Gu Ailing was never asked to be a "perfect person", because there is no perfect person.
But today's Gu Ailing is indeed very perfect in all aspects, both literary and martial, and the emotional intelligence is also extremely high.
Such a child, because there are so few shortcomings, you simply can't catch her shortcomings.
When a person achieves too much flash, then when you look at her, she is a light-like existence.
In addition, Gu Yan conveyed a very important "thought" to Gu Ailing.
She always said in Gu Ailing's ear, "All your future achievements are achieved by yourself." ”
And add, "No need to thank us, thank yourself." ”
This is a very profound sentence in educating children.
From the words of Otani Ailing, she gained infinite strength, and she did not have any feeling of relying on others.
So she doesn't need to live for her family, all the hard work is fighting for her own life.
Nine, so why Gu Ailing's life, in fact, can not be copied,
Because there are too many "right assists" around her.
Whether it is a father, or a mother, even the elderly like my grandmother are also very powerful assistants to her.
On the road she grew up, the opportunity to take a detour was basically absent, plus her ability to trial and error was strong enough.
This makes her a winner in life early, which is almost a doomed trend.
In particular, her mother Gu Yan, who seems not to be educated, actually does "invisible education".
Gu Ailing's mother once worked on Wall Street and founded a venture capital firm.
This kind of work itself requires enough risk-taking, and Gu Yan's ability in this regard is very strong.
So she can play extreme sports, and incidentally it also affects Gu Ailing to play together.
Dare to take risks, and have enough brains to support this adventure, the probability of success will be greater.
Gu Ailing is like a "risk stock" that her mother put into the world, and now it is getting huge returns.
Eleven, born in a family of "life's top players", Gu Ailing has been on a more advanced road at the beginning.
Receiving the double baptism of Chinese and Western cultures, she crossed both sides without any obstacles.
She has a Western face, eats leek boxes, multiplys from elementary school nine nine, and attends a superb private high school in the United States.
She fully absorbs the essence of both cultures, and there is no suspense at all about becoming an elite.
However, most children do not have such a starting point, let alone such a family background.
Therefore, Gu Ailing's achievements today are the cultivation of multiple factors, not the result of loose education.
Xii. A child who was born at the top of the pyramid himself, walks up the pyramid,
It's not the same as the child who aspires to go to the top from the bottom of the pyramid.
If Gu Ailing had started at the bottom at the beginning, she might have lived another life.
But she still has a lot of good things to absorb.
That is, her thinking is rarely limited, and her life pattern is very broad.
But it is too difficult to get most of the children to follow in her footsteps and hope to become the next "Gu Ailing".
Ordinary people's children can accurately choose the right path, which is already a blessing.
Ordinary people's children need more strict education, and the chances of becoming talents will be greater.