In 2022, the marriage market became a Ponzi scheme: raising the 4 needs of ordinary women and making high-quality men roll up? There are two extremes in the marriage and love market in 2022, on the one hand, there are more women and young men in the rural market, marriageable girls have become "fragrant", the bride price and caravan requirements are getting higher and higher, high-quality rural young men have internal volumes, and young men who are not good at choosing a mate are difficult, on the other hand, large cities have become more boys and girls, girls are more difficult to choose a mate, high-quality single young men are very sought-after, the marriage market in 2022 is equivalent to a Ponzi scheme, and different markets have caused the same concept of marriage and love, resulting in different results.
Due to the imbalance in the proportion of men and women in different places, different endings have been formed, due to the development of modern society, women do not have to rely on marriage to survive, marriage has become a project for women to choose, due to personal appreciation, far from being willing to lower the standard of marriage, especially girls who enter the city, more yearning for a modern and free life, if they can not meet the right, willing to postpone marriage. In 2022, the marriage market became a Ponzi scheme: raising the 4 needs of ordinary women and making high-quality men roll up?
1. Marriage needs
In 2022, there are indeed more marriageable men than women, but this extra 30 million, most of them are concentrated in the countryside, most of the rural young girls choose to work and study in big cities, and many boys stay in the countryside, because the concept of the countryside is to support their sons, boys stay in the countryside, you can get the help of the whole family, there is homestead and parents to help, and these rural girls are not, they might as well go to the big city to fight, many rural men queue up for the Spring Festival to go on a blind date, this scene is not rare at all, And the woman will definitely choose better conditions.
2. The boy's inner roll
The only daughters of first- and second-tier cities have enjoyed the best dividends, they have understood their high value since childhood, shouldered the expectations of their parents, will focus on personal struggle, in fact, the rural marriage market and the urban marriage market, almost completely different painting style, more than 70% of the users of the major dating websites are girls, far more than the number of male users, many boys with good conditions, booked at the age of 28, the inner volume in the marriage market is also divided into genders, the threshold for ordinary men to enter the inner volume is too much, appearance, work, These three items of family situation have screened out many people, and the girls' light appearance and temperament have increased the average score of a single item.
3. The value of marriage and love
Real high-quality boys, the right to choose more than high-quality girls, and girls are generally unwilling to be compatible downwards, many girls are not high or low, ordinary boys do not dare to pursue the conditions too good, so girls with medium conditions have become a sought-after commodity in the marriage market, men who want to get married are indeed more than women, but the threshold for boys to choose is greater, they are willing to reduce the standard of mate selection in order to get married, known as "girls and boys more" The marriage market, which has become a Ponzi scheme, constantly hyping the value of girls' marriage, In fact, the truth is that there are more and more leftover women.
4. The concept of marriage and love
Normally speaking, men should look at gender relations equally, respect the personal development of girls, do not think of marrying a daughter-in-law back, that is, to honor their parents and have children, dedicate themselves to the family, women should accept the true face of modern marriage, in the present when the pressure of life is so great, do not think about the old concept of marrying and eating, and marriages that are equal to each other for common progress can be more long-term and stable. Because the poorer the area, the more difficult it is for boys to marry, and they have to rely on their parents to marry a wife, while girls in poor areas do not want to return to their hometown as long as they enter the city to work.
If the boys in the countryside do not work well, if they can't stay in the city, most of them will go back to their hometown, at least there is a family to help, if the personal conditions are very good, through their own efforts to stay in the city, it will be easy to get married and have children, in the countryside if the woman does not marry, the discrimination is not much, the mother's family is also grateful to her for sending living expenses to the family, but also help the mother's family, but the man can't marry a wife, even the family is disgusted, he needs marriage more, only when he gets married can someone give him children to take care of the family. Marriageable women who grew up in the city are reluctant to settle down, and they see through the nature of marriage very early, which is also related to the high divorce rate in the city, and they do not believe that marriage can rely on for a lifetime. In 2022, the marriage market is estimated to be seriously polarized, and the single rate will continue to rise in the future.