Before the child is 12 years old, the parents tell these 5 small stories, and the child will be more prominent in the future!
All education takes timing
Parents should start their children's education as early as possible, and there are some words that you must tell your children early
There are some truths that you must also let your child understand early
If you don't know how to say it, try telling him a story
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Parents and children will be in such a dilemma, the more you want your children to do something
The more the child resists doing something, such as reading
We often hear some parents say
"You have to study well, otherwise you will suffer losses in the future."
The child retorted
"Reading is useless, those who graduated in 985, earn less than people in junior high school when they come out as Internet celebrities to do live broadcasting"
"I'm so tired of reading, I want to play games"
"Don't talk about me, the country has made us reduce our burden."
Yeah, sometimes kids just won't reason with you
So what to do?
In fact, we can completely change a method, such as telling the truth to children in the method of storytelling
The following 5 short stories, before the child is 12 years old, the sooner the parents tell them, the more the child will have a good time in the future
01
About looking at the phone
Once upon a time there was a wise man who put a very fresh banana in front of a monkey and a wad of money
So the monkey did not hesitate to pick up the banana
I saw him eat the banana three times five divided by two
But the stomach was not yet full
Next, the monkey was in trouble
At one point, he even fell into despair
So the wise man told his students
Sometimes, like this monkey, we humans are always tempted by immediate benefits or benefits
But I forgot to think about myself for the long term
If the monkey had taken the money, it would have owned more than a banana
Mom knows that reading is hard, but playing games on the phone is very easy
But you know, playing games on your phone is like a banana chosen by a monkey
Maybe today you will feel very happy, very happy
It's easy to be satisfied, but over time, you will feel empty and painful
The gap with others will also grow
Conversely, if you choose to read, then you gain the motivation to move forward
Every time you fly against the wind, you will make yourself more experienced, more confident and more fulfilled
Over time, you'll get more
02
About the meaning of reading
There is a grandfather who will make his grandson get up early to study every day
Although he lived in the mountains, Grandpa paid great attention to the upbringing of his children and never slackened off on reading
But the little grandson was very puzzled
One day when he was tired of reading, he asked his grandfather
"Grandpa, Grandpa, the book I read yesterday, I forgot it today, and even as long as I close the book, the content will disappear on its own, you say I read it every day, what is the use, there is no meaning at all"
As a result, Grandpa instructed his little grandson to take a bamboo basket to fetch water
The little grandson was very obedient and set off with a bamboo basket
But when he walked home with all his might, the water in the bamboo basket had already spilled on the road
By the time I got home, there was not a drop left
Then Grandpa said
"You run again, remember to run faster"
So the little grandson ran to fetch water over and over again
But no matter how fast he ran, the bamboo basket still had no water left, so he said angrily
"Grandpa, how do you deceive people, the bamboo basket can't hit the water at all"
Grandpa said with a smile
You look down at the bamboo basket in your hand, so the little grandson looks down
"Wow, the bamboo basket has become so clean."
Yes, many times, reading books is meaningless
But as long as you persist, in fact, it will always bring you different changes
Change your mind, your vision, your temperament
It will also change your attitude towards life
The same thing, a person who has read a book, and a person who has not read a book
Their thinking and perceptions are different
And these invisible, spiritual and spiritual changes are the most important meaning of reading
03
About spurring
Mozi, the founder of the famous Mojia School, had a favorite student named Cultivating Pillar
Mozi was very strict with him
Once in class, he saw the cultivating pillar wandering, so he said the cultivating pillar fiercely
Cultivating pillar felt very unfair, so he asked Mozi
"Everyone doesn't listen carefully, why are you just scolding me?"
Listening to the question of cultivating the pillar, Mozi did not answer him directly
Rather, in turn, it raises a question
"If I let you drive to the Taihang Mountains and give you a good horse and an old cow to pull a cart, then in order to hurry, which one will you spur?"
The cultivator didn't want to answer
"Of course it's a good horse"
But before he could finish speaking, he understood that he was the good horse in the eyes of the teacher
Because the teacher valued him, he was severely spurred on
The so-called "deep love, responsibility"
Whether it is a parent or a teacher, the reason why it spurs the child
It is because I am full of expectations for them that I am willing to spend time and effort to discipline them
Especially the teachers
So if someone is harsh on you, don't get angry
Maybe it's because he sees your potential that he wants to spur you on and make you better
04
The difference between reading and not reading
Xiaoming, who is in junior high school, feels that reading is very boring, and he is very envious of those brothers and sisters who do live broadcasting and become Internet celebrities
So one day, he went home and told his father
"Dad, I don't want to read anymore, I don't think it makes a difference whether I read or not"
So Dad took him up the hill to cut firewood
When he got to the mountain, dad told him, look at these trees here
For a long year, we can only take it home as firewood, or keep it as a fence
But when they grow for 20 years, 30 years later, these trees, they are different, they will become furniture, they will become beams and pillars
The effect is even greater
It's the same as reading, if you don't read, you can only go home to herd sheep or farm
If you go to elementary school, you may be able to become a cadre in the village, and you can also find a small job in the city and sell your strength
After graduating from junior high school, you can enter the factory, although stable, but it is still very hard
If you graduate from high school, you may be able to fix the computer
But if you go all the way to college, then you have more options and more decent
Not to mention masters, phDs and so on
Dad wants you to understand that there is no distinction between high and low in all professions
But people's choices are different
The difference between reading and not reading is that you will have more choices
05
About circles
There was a guy who wanted to buy a bowl
So he went to a kitchenware shop, and when he went in, he picked up a bowl and kept bumping into other bowls
In the end, nothing was chosen
So the boss said
"What kind of bowl does this guest want?"
As a result, the customer said
"I want a good bowl, I heard that if you hit it with a bowl, if it sounds good, it will be a good bowl"
The boss listened, so he picked up another bowl and handed it to the customer, asking him to try again
Unexpectedly, the collision between this bowl and all the bowls is particularly good
People, too, want to benefit from getting along with others
You have to change your social circle and make yourself excellent
Another meaning of reading lies in this
Only if you continue to work hard and become excellent, you will meet more excellent classmates and friends
You can collide with each other and make the most beautiful sound in the world
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